Having a Family.

@JustBhem (70555)
Davao, Philippines
May 22, 2019 10:49am CST
I heard from my Mother that my 4th Brother will start his own Family. And this makes me irk. Why? Because I know how irresponsible he is, he can’t even take care of his own kid and does not have a job. He told my Mother that they will live here with us but my Mother disagree. The other room was still occupied by my younger Brothers. So Mother told him to move out instead if he really wants to have his own Family. Plus I really don’t like the idea, and of course the girlfriend for whom he wants to be a Family. The girl lives somewhere and always here every time, or even at dawn and I don’t like girls who are like that. I know that it’s his right but what does it make him?
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Manuela Lopes
@nela13 (55734)
• Portugal
22 May 19
For your description it seems that your brother is very irresponsible, if he doesn't have a job to support a family it is impossible rent a house or pay all the goodies that are necessary.
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
23 May 19
Exactly! My thought. And I only pity him because for sure he will struggle.
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
23 May 19
@nela13 He will indeed.
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Manuela Lopes
@nela13 (55734)
• Portugal
23 May 19
@JustBhem struggle a lot!
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Pfarelo
@Mulidi (1979)
• Cruz Bay, Virgin Islands (U.S.)
22 May 19
This is not good at just let it go maybe he will figure it out himself
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
22 May 19
How? I mean how will he do that when he even doesn’t know how to take care of his own son.
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
23 May 19
@Mulidi He so lazy, even washes his plate. So, I doubt.
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Pfarelo
@Mulidi (1979)
• Cruz Bay, Virgin Islands (U.S.)
22 May 19
@JustBhem he must look for job first or online jobs so that he can stand for his own feet maybe he will get something
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Oshy
@TiarasOceanView (70035)
• United States
22 May 19
This sounds like not a good idea for him to do so.
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
22 May 19
We have the same thought. It would be too hard for them both if they do that in a rush.
Alfredo Rossi
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
22 May 19
how many are in your family there.Not that is not a good idea also
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Alfredo Rossi
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
22 May 19
@JustBhem that is a good size we had nine
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
22 May 19
All in all we are 6.
Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
23 May 19
@amadeo Well, I have 6 siblings, and 1 step brother.
DianneN
@DianneN (247191)
• United States
22 May 19
That’s unreal! Here, most would get a job, save money to buy a house, get married, then start a family. I don’t blame your mother.
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DianneN
@DianneN (247191)
• United States
23 May 19
@JustBhem It takes two.
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
23 May 19
I already told him about how hard it is for him know nothing about having a job. But I think it has something to do with the girl. I think the girl is responsible for this.
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Bouta
@Babino (5761)
• Morocco
22 May 19
well, you liking the girl or not shouldn't really matter, but, how can he start a family if he doesn't have a job ? it's insane.
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
23 May 19
It does insane. I hope he change his mind.
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