Oh no! Not 'nother!

@crazyhorseladycx oh dear. all I can do is pray for you hon. wish I could help. men make us miserable sometimes.

my belief? 'tis why he does such, to cause more troubles 'n then to blame me fer such. i really need to fetch me a life....

@bunnybon7 no worries, hon. i consider this self-inflicted'n i'd be the only'un who can repair the damage. i really need to quit complainin' 'bout this fella 's i feel this gives 'im power (which he craves), e'en though he's nary a clue i've done so.

oh, aint bad lookin'. this'd be his 2-fer surprise a few weeks back. a 5th wheel camper 'n then this. we've not a need fer either 'xcept fer the 1 week a year he goes huntin'. the schtuff'n the garages (i've 4 garages, one o'ersized - 35x40' 'n a large critter/hay barn he's cabbaged 'nto) 'll be cleaned best i can when he aint here. ya wanna see a grown fella 've a fit?? try to do such whilst he's here. "DONT TOUCH MY STUFF" 'd be what i get...'long with some other schtuff we shan't discuss here.

@crazyhorseladycx He must have some gene in common with my father. He has filled his flat, out summer house, three storage rooms and all other possible place he can fit thing into with stuff. I had a horse trailer in town for a while, he started filling it with stuff too. When I throw things away he gets very nervous and claims that it can be used some day! When the apocalypse comes maybe. That's when we need it. 10 year old papers, 15 year old computers and 80 year old Christmas decorations. Plus booze.

@Torunn yes!! they must be! we'd finally a storm come through today 'n he 'twas out parkin' trucks'n that danged jeep'n what he considers 'strategic places'. he asked me if'n i wished him to put all the woodworkin' schtuff, mis-matched windows'n all the other, uhm 'schtuff', out'n the weather 'nstead. well, duh! the hubs he 'tis that way. he's ol' freezers 'n fridges out'n a part 'f my pasture e'en - ya know, jest'n case somebody might need such....like 't'd work if'n such occasion 'rrived. he's also my 3 horse slant with a dressin' room/limited livin' quarters piled high, 's well 's my stock trailer filled with 'schtuff'. i used to fit 520 bales 'f hay'n my barn. ya can't e'en get'n the door now. my wide driveway 'tis to the point ya can park'n the side 'f the road 'n hike to the house. this latter 'fter i spent 5 days movin'/rearrangin' that which 'twas already there. took 'im less'n a week to fill't all 'p' gain. anythin' anybody wishes to dispose 'f, he cabbages 'nto. i believe part 'f my troubles's i'm drownin' 'n 'schtuff'. 'tis e'erywhere i turn. he's e'en prone to doin' such'n my wee sanctuary, so's i gotta clean'p constant 'fter 'im..... here, he hides the booze. no doubt why he gets so violent 't the mention 'f me clearin' these places out. sigh...i'm jest gettin' too ol' fer this kind'a life.

the hubs despises me cleanin' anywhere whilst he's home. aint figured if'n such'd be from guilt 'r fear 'f me askin' fer help. i'm not 'llowed to touch his mess'n the livin' room 'round 'is recliner...

@crazyhorseladycx I think it's because he is afraid that you will ask him to help you in cleaning the house.

@crazyhorseladycx Well, I promise a vacation with me will be much more pleasant!!

yes ma'am 'n hopefully the health'll continue to 'mprove 'n i can cabbage 'nto a job. gotta 've a source 'f 'ncome. most kind 'f ya! i fear i don't fly (missed the feather train?) 'n dunno 'f a train from these parts to there? might be somethin' to check 'nto though... 'twas tryin' to recall my last vacation. believe such 'twas back'n 1990?? 've been 'way from here, but 'twas all medical reasons 'n most 'npleasant.

@BelleStarr i bet so, sweet friend! i've minimal requirements. jest wanna be someplace peaceful 'n with's few folks's possible. i'm'n dire need 'f deep nature't the moment. the sounds'f runnin' water 'n the tantalizin' scents 'f the woods.

@crazyhorseladycx lol..does he at least try and keep up with maintenance and such in between the time its used? Both the Jeep and camper? I'd be afraid that if he didn't keep on top of the camper, snakes could get in it.

@simone10 well, both're rather newly 'cquired so such's not been a huge concern'f mine. my fears'd be that we're gonna get one'f those monster hail storms'n both'll get greatly damaged. don't fear snakes gettin' 'nto the camper. that'd be one good thingy 'bout all these danged cats - they tend to keep those slithery critters 'way. there'd be a skunk here 's well who aids 'n bein' that snake repellent, lol.

yepperz, more schtuff not needed'n'll not be used 'xcept once a year most likely. 'tis more 'kin to a spoilt young'un...but we'll continue to call such a mid-life crisis jest to be kind, lol.

if'n such 'twas a matter 'f wee schtuff, that'd be simple to 'ccomplish. 'nfortunately these'd be large 'n heavy items 'n i'd need great 'ssistance. there be plenty'f room fer a large portion if'n only he'd not jest leave schtuff willy-nilly.

@crazyhorseladycx My hubby has learned that I will find a way

lol, no worries :) i couldn't neither, but alas, such 'tis so. such'd not bother 's much, but fer the purpose 'f jest huntin' once a year?? uhm.... he'd be one'f those folks who seems to need 'schtuff'. e'erywhere. broken schtuff, ol' schtuff, jest schtuff. i'd finally the need to actually say, if'n ya bring one more thingy'n this house, yer gonna die...yup, i did! she's goin' to france without family?? hmmm, must be plum fed 'p with that bunch, eh? if'n i could drive successfully'n a regular basis, i'd be hookin' that camper to truck (leave 'im the yukon) 'n takin' off fer parts 'nknown 'til i got there, lol. nah, he'd not tend my critters proper...wonder if'n i could get a bumper pull 4 horse trailer'n pull such 'hind? 'tis a cute lil jeep. i'm tryin' to figure if'n i recall how's to drive such? 'tis a 6 speed'n the floor. i love the simplicity 'f the dashboard, lol.

he's turned to bein' a selfish 'n petty fella. i remind myself 't least 't aint 'nother pup 's that used to be what he'd drag home quite oft. he's taken 't out a couple times out here 'n 'dores 't. 's fer actual use?? i'm thinkin' a couple times a year'd not be worth the 'nsurance paid. if'n 'tis like when he used to haul a couple 'f my horses (to hunt off 'n pack out if'n needed), such'll sit 't the camp 'n they'll go off'n my big truck...

@crazyhorseladycx Sounds like a really useful vehicle.