The Common Cycle of Attitude or Personality of each Human

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No idea if you have observed the common attitude or personality of each people from time to time especially from childhood, adolescence, adulthood, parenthood and lastly if they are too old. I am not saying that this common attitude can be applied to all people but it depends on how they were grown up. This is as well based on my own experience. As a kid, of course, you are innocent enough to know everything, at times you will apply the teachings of your parents and some oldies. If you are a kid you only have basic thinking, you can still manage to do what is right than doing the wrong things, you just play with other kids. Though dividing still happens during childhood then it is up to the kid on how they handle it. Teenage life is something that you want attention, approval and pleasing other people, you are concern about the quantity of friends, you are even afraid to offend other people so that people will not hate you or you won't lose a friend. Friend is something that is important to you. At some point you even want to be with friends rather than parents. Your concern is having fun and excitement with friends. There are some teenagers who are not serious with their studies and even rebellious to their parents. Adulthood you are most concern about your reputation and career including as well the finances or how to be rich. When a person is at career most of them change their attitude and becoming arrogant whenever they reach the level of being successful. Again I am not saying that it applies to all people but if are observant you can notice it. At times they will put you down or discriminate you because they are overconfident as if the money is unlimited. At times in parenthood, some are being manipulative to the child, of course, discipline is always included but we do have different ways to make it.. When a parent is a career person they won't spend much time to the kids just because they are busy at work. There are a lot of things they ignore to the kid in which it can be having a psychological effect. They are even wondering why the kid is a problem child whereas it came from the parents itself. Some parents are even set so much expectation to the child such as they have to be academic achiever, consistent honor and so on. Expecting as well that parents will work hard because someday their children will be their investment that children will be responsible to finance the parents. That is the culture here in our country. If a person is old usually they are becoming sensitive even the abusive person. Even if you don't intend to offend them usually they are always being offended. Some oldies are being rude as part of being authoritative, they excuse themseleves of being old that is why they can cross the line in making such rude and offensive remarks to the young ones. They are doing the bad things that they don't want to do it for them. Though on the other part they are also sensitive to the attention and even seeking for it. They will also feel the sadness and the feeling that people are ignoring them. When an old is into dying part or especially when they are suffering into sickness, most of them will have the conscience to apologize for their wrong doings but when they are strong enough they really like offending other people.