Why I hate her ..

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@raveeen (3457)
June 9, 2019 2:42am CST
I really hate my cousin (she's is 8 years older than me). She is so judgemental, loves to criticize others physical appearance even tho those persons who she criticized in a negative way are nice people. I hate how she talk about others physical appearance, how she judge them because at first she's not pretty at all, lots of acne,pimple, fat. Why can't she try to look first herself at the mirror before she judge someone. It's insane!! because it's her HABIT. She's so toxic that's why I stayed away from her, I don't want to adapt her traits. I'm 101% pretty sure that she is lack of her self-esteem as well as confidence but damn... being a judgemental person is not the answer lol. I just really want to tell her every day that I hear her judging "Can you look yourself first at the mirror?? don't you know that you are more worth to judge??" in fact I'm not her only cousin who is mad at her because of her behavior. All words that are coming out to her damn mouth are all negative.. you can't hear positive words, that's how toxic she is. we really hate her. being "judgemental" and "toxic" is her genuine trait GIRL IN THE PHOTO BELOW IS NOT MY COUSIN,I JUST USED HER PHOTO BECAUSE OF FACIAL EXPRESSION
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
9 Jun 19
Have you tried to talk to her about her attitude towards other people?
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
9 Jun 19
@raveeen I think she is so insecure of herself.
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@raveeen (3457)
9 Jun 19
My auntie which is her mother always talked to her about her attitude but she really don't care. Toxis right? Doesn't want to accept the fact that she's too toxic haha even those nice people who is nice to her? she still judged them
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@raveeen (3457)
9 Jun 19
@JustBhem Yea, she's really insecure of herself. I just don't like people who are too judgemental
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• Sonora, California
9 Jun 19
It’s because she’s insecure and sadly is trying to build herself up by putting others down, I’m sorry you are having to deal with this, it’s not easy!
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• Sonora, California
10 Jun 19
@raveeen I’ve known some like that!
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@raveeen (3457)
10 Jun 19
@Michellekidwell I hate that kind of attitude but we can't do anything if it's their habit
@raveeen (3457)
9 Jun 19
It's not easy to be around with her, with that kind of attitude
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@dodo19 (48167)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
9 Jun 19
Some people just have a hard time looking at themselves in the mirror before judging. Maybe she just doesn't like herself, which may be why she judges others. Just a theory.
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@raveeen (3457)
9 Jun 19
Yea ther the are times she's saying "I really feel irritated everytime I saw that ugly fat woman who looks like whale ( because of her body)" then I will sarcastically tell her "Wow, coming from you" then she'll just shut her mouth.
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@May2k8 (19788)
• Indonesia
9 Jun 19
Nobody likes people like that, it's just that she who feels older doesn't mean she can say whatever she want.
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@raveeen (3457)
9 Jun 19
She's not the oldest among my cousins. Its her habit. We hate her so much
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@Janet357 (75638)
9 Jun 19
she is jealous because she doesnt have what others have.
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@raveeen (3457)
9 Jun 19
Ya that's what all of her cousins are thinking of. I really hate her personality. She's the one member or our family who has that kind of attitude
@Aansh13 (11433)
• New Delhi, India
9 Jun 19
You know, there is something with the negative people. No body like them.... Criticizing nature is a big turn off for me....
@raveeen (3457)
9 Jun 19
I know she has lots of insecurities but it's not right to judge others if you are too insecure... I hate her personality
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@Aansh13 (11433)
• New Delhi, India
9 Jun 19
@raveeen Yeah! mostly insecure people have this quality of judging people.... You are right
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@raveeen (3457)
9 Jun 19
@Aansh13 Someday she'll realize it when all of us avoid her because of her attitude
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