Do you always complain?

@JustBhem (70555)
Davao, Philippines
June 11, 2019 9:54pm CST
I and my younger Brother was talking earlier about my 5th Brother who always comes home from work and keep complaining about his job. Like, this is not my task, that he should come home early or he should do this only. One time I told him if he does not want the job anymore then leave and look for another one, and guess what, he still working there. And now, he comes home complaining again.
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Jandie
@tech40 (23128)
• Philippines
12 Jun 19
Well, at least he can vent out! There are people who just want to vent out what they feel to make themselves feel better
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Jandie
@tech40 (23128)
• Philippines
12 Jun 19
@JustBhem Tell him to get a girlfriend, so that he knows someone who's there to listen for multiple times about his problem.
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
12 Jun 19
But sometimes it’s annoying. He keeps saying that every day.
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
12 Jun 19
@tech40 Apparently, he does have a girlfriend.
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rsa101
@rsa101 (37969)
• Philippines
12 Jun 19
Well I guess I can relate to that also but I persisted in my job. There are times that employers can also become abusive in utilizing their employees because they know they cannot just leave because of the benefits they have to forego when they leave it.
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rsa101
@rsa101 (37969)
• Philippines
12 Jun 19
@JustBhem just remind him that unless he can get a replacement job then he will have no choice and complaining will never solve his problems unless he finds a good alternative. Better he earns than nothing at all.
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
12 Jun 19
I think that’s what happen to my 5th Brother. His Boss always makes him work extra.
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
12 Jun 19
@rsa101 I always telling him that it’s time to look for another job that he likes. i don’t know if he takes it.
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Sky
@skysnap (20154)
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12 Jun 19
complaining is only healthy if we do something about it.. otherwise it is just not healthy for our own self or others.
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
12 Jun 19
I don’t know why he is like that and still working there.
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Sky
@skysnap (20154)
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12 Jun 19
@JustBhem maybe comfort zone... get him motivated for interview in other companies.
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
12 Jun 19
@skysnap He does not work in any company, he work as a laborer/meat section in the market.
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rakski
@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
12 Jun 19
sometimes he just have to express what he feels but he does not have the intention to quit
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rakski
@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
12 Jun 19
@JustBhem I am sure, he thought about it, but it this moment in time where it is hard to find a job, I do not think he wants to be out of work
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
12 Jun 19
Maybe. But still if you are not happy then leave, right?
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Aanshi Raghava
@Aansh13 (11251)
• New Delhi, India
12 Jun 19
I hate complaining.... I a very easygoing person
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
12 Jun 19
As for me, I too complains a lot. Because living my life now is not very easy.
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Aanshi Raghava
@Aansh13 (11251)
• New Delhi, India
12 Jun 19
@JustBhem I understand... But finding a solution should be kept as priority
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
12 Jun 19
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dhia eddine
@didinedhia (8475)
• Algeria
12 Jun 19
Sometimes i do yes
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
12 Jun 19
What you usually complaining about?
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dhia eddine
@didinedhia (8475)
• Algeria
13 Jun 19
@JustBhem my work! my health! my stutter