Supper vs Dinner

By Jojo
@Sojourn (13836)
India
June 13, 2019 10:58am CST
I admit that I harbored a wrong notion about these two meals of the English speaking countries. I thought that supper is a meal ate during the night (after 8:00 p.m) and usually the last meal of the day whereas dinner is a meal of the evening. But the dictionary.com is saying that the two words are used interchangeably in the US and they doesn't usually mean any specific time of the day. It also says the word supper is used less and less compared to dinner since the previous century. To add more confusion, it even says that dinner maybe akin to lunch. Now, I am pretty baffled about this and would like some inputs from fellow mylotters. Image: dictionary.com
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@owlwings (43915)
• Cambridge, England
13 Jun 19
Just to add to your confusion, usage is different in the UK to that in the US and it also varies from area to area in the UK. Here, dinner can describe a midday meal as well as an evening meal but is usually used (in both cases) to mean a more substantial one than either lunch or supper. Our family always used to call the midday meal 'dinner' and the evening meal (which was lighter and eaten at about 7pm about an hour before we children went to bed) as 'supper'. However, there was also 'tea', which was a light afternoon meal (tea, sandwiches and biscuits/cookies or cake) and, when tea got combined with supper, it was called 'high tea'. Many of these terms have dropped out of use in the last 60 years, at least in our family. We now have three main meals - breakfast, lunch and supper - at home, though if we have a meal with friends (not immediate family) it's usually called dinner if its a more formal evening meal. I think that the term 'dinner' has almost dropped out of use for a midday meal, now, in favour of 'lunch', which may be substantial but is always less formal than dinner.
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@owlwings (43915)
• Cambridge, England
13 Jun 19
@Sojourn These days, if you say 'dinner' to most people, you mean a formal meal, usually in the evening, something which you'd dress up for and expect to be sociable at. Lunch is always a mid-day meal and is generally less formal but is often social, of course. Supper is always informal and light and usually just within the family
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
14 Jun 19
On seeing his topic I searched your reply I know you are the best one to clear such doubts.
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@Sojourn (13836)
• India
13 Jun 19
Thanks for the lucid explanation. I can see that the word 'dinner' had acquired a set of different meanings, that it is a bit confounding.
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
13 Jun 19
I use the words breakfast, lunch and supper. I never use dinner.
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
13 Jun 19
@Sojourn Here, everyone uses supper for the evening meal.
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@Sojourn (13836)
• India
13 Jun 19
@1hopefulman I would like to hear from another Canadian.
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@Sojourn (13836)
• India
13 Jun 19
Ok...so it is good to find the usage of supper.
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@tech40 (23128)
• Philippines
13 Jun 19
I'm using dinner for night meal. I didn't know that they're different. I thought they're just same
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@tech40 (23128)
• Philippines
13 Jun 19
@Sojourn Yeah, that is what I know too.
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@Sojourn (13836)
• India
13 Jun 19
I knew it right. They're are same.
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
14 Jun 19
They are used interchangeably in the United States for the last meal of the day.
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@Sojourn (13836)
• India
14 Jun 19
Ok....What do you usually use?
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
14 Jun 19
@Sojourn Mostly supper
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• Agra, India
13 Jun 19
That is strange. I thought dinner was strictly used for night meal
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@Sojourn (13836)
• India
13 Jun 19
Yeah, a bit confusing.
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• Agra, India
13 Jun 19
@Sojourn I have heard that somwhere in the states they call dinner as there afternoon meal.
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@Sojourn (13836)
• India
13 Jun 19
@amitkokiladitya Hmm.... I had a different notion.
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@ShifaLk (17817)
• India
15 Jun 19
I learnt too from the comments.. Good post
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@ShifaLk (17817)
• India
15 Jun 19
@Sojourn yeah but not that much Isn't it
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@Sojourn (13836)
• India
15 Jun 19
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@Sojourn (13836)
• India
15 Jun 19
It cleared my confusion to some extent.
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@yanzalong (18984)
• Indonesia
17 Jun 19
Probably supper is a light meal after dinner.
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@eileenleyva (27562)
• Philippines
9 Jul 19
Dinner pertains all meals of the day. Thus, one can say, let's dine together at Eat-all-you-can Lunch Buffet. The meals are as follows: Breakfast, Meriencda (snacks), Brunch (midmorning- in case one misses breakfast and needs early lunch), Lunch, Afternoon Snacks (with coffee or tea), Supper, Midnight Snacks. Current lingo implies dinner as supper.
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@eileenleyva (27562)
• Philippines
9 Jul 19
@Sojourn Most popular in my country is free dinner.
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@Sojourn (13836)
• India
9 Jul 19
Thanks for the explanation. I can see that Dinner is an all encompassing term now.
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@hereandthere (45651)
• Philippines
13 Jun 19
i've always known dinner and supper as the same - the evening meal, which is usually 7 to 7:30pm here. but i eventually learned that in some us states, one can mean lunch and the other the evening meal. i just can't remember which is which. i don't know if it's the same or different in other english-speaking countries.
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@Sojourn (13836)
• India
13 Jun 19
Thanks for your comment.
• United States
29 Jun 19
You are okay Jojo. Some people call it dinner some call it supper. You did nothing wrong.
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• United States
30 Jun 19
@Sojourn In my personal culture, family it is the same. We are Irish, Sicilian and American
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@Sojourn (13836)
• India
30 Jun 19
Supper and Dinner are different,as much as I understood.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
13 Jun 19
I say both.What are you baffled.You know what they mean.Supper or dinner the same thing.
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@Sojourn (13836)
• India
13 Jun 19
I knew supper and dinner to be different.
@parpande (1515)
• Bangalore, India
14 Jun 19
@Sojourn I observed that it is used very interchangeably .Earlier it was like Americans would say different and Britishers maintain the protocols but more I interacted online I found these grammar and correct usage of words are perhaps only made for Asians who are forced to speak as right as possible by their strict English teachers of middle and high schools.
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@Sojourn (13836)
• India
14 Jun 19
Haha.... well said. They enforced their notions on us and we took them sort of like a gospel truth.
@Kanubanu (3094)
14 Jun 19
I never heard this
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@ShifaLk (17817)
• India
15 Jun 19
@Kanubanu Let me remind you.. We say last supper in the Bible
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@Sojourn (13836)
• India
14 Jun 19
Alright...