Losing one's interest quickly

@Janet357 (75656)
June 18, 2019 9:53am CST
Have you ever experienced losing your interest in one thing after days of not doing it? I will not go.into details about this, but this.is me. Somehow it makes me ask, what about those whose spouses live or work.abroad, do their love evaporate as well?
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@Sojourn (13836)
• India
18 Jun 19
Yeah.....when you get into the flow of doing things,and it gets interrupted for some reason.
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@Sojourn (13836)
• India
18 Jun 19
@Janet357 I think this is because people sometimes get in the urge of expressing something that they can't express at that moment to anybody in their real life and then they start to think about mylot again.
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@Janet357 (75656)
18 Jun 19
@Sojourn yes. But in my case i got addicted to some site but when i left it, i left it for good.
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@Janet357 (75656)
18 Jun 19
It just amazes me how come those who have left mylot can still return
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@Nakitakona (56302)
• Philippines
18 Jun 19
Losing interest or regretting it? I have experienced that several times.
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@Janet357 (75656)
18 Jun 19
Losing interest
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@Nakitakona (56302)
• Philippines
18 Jun 19
@Janet357 For example when you're doing something and you get bored, you're losing interest then. Aren't you?
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@Janet357 (75656)
18 Jun 19
@Nakitakona yes thats it. You hit it right. I easily get addicted to some thing but when i fail to do it for two days, i lose interest .
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@ShyBear88 (59282)
• Sterling, Virginia
18 Jun 19
My husband works night shift I think that makes our relationship strong a lot of people can’t deal with it. It’s not the same as partner being over seas (abroad) but it does mean I’m home alone with the kids a lot of the time. He is also home a lot which evens out in the end. I do get bored of things like cleaning. Some times it’s great other times I want to hit my head on the wall, folding clothes. I’ll knit some times but lose interested after a little bit of time. I still do it but some times o don’t feel the joy in wanting to complete it.
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@ShyBear88 (59282)
• Sterling, Virginia
18 Jun 19
@Janet357 that’s happens with sites. I’ve had my share of those
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@Janet357 (75656)
18 Jun 19
Yes, thats true. But i iust lost my interest in one site. I didnt visit it for two days. Now i wanted to give it up. Too lazy to go there. Then it made me wonder what about those couple who live apart. How do they keep their relationships aflame
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@Daljinder (23233)
• Bangalore, India
18 Jun 19
You have to work on keeping yourself interested. Spice things up a bit. Marriage and relationships need work constantly. That is why people in relationships or married are suggested to continue the romancing and wooing throughout the relationship.
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@Janet357 (75656)
18 Jun 19
No, not problem with marriage. I lost my interest in one site. So i just compared it to couples who live apart. Not seeing for months and years and yet they are still connected. While me, i just didnt visit the site for two days, i wanted to give it up
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@Daljinder (23233)
• Bangalore, India
18 Jun 19
@Janet357 eh.. that is not a good comparison. Anywhos, yeah if you lose interest in a site then its normal. I do all the time.
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@ShifaLk (17817)
• India
18 Jun 19
Oh yeah.. Sometimes it can happen
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18 Jun 19
A spouse is not a website and I lose interest everyday in different sites. But I just move along to something better..and bookmark the supposedly "boring" sites..
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
18 Jun 19
I have no problem.
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@Aansh13 (11251)
• New Delhi, India
18 Jun 19
Well I know what you are talking about and every single person go through that. Trust me it is the fact, no-one loves monotony.... You just need to figure out a way keep the interest in ... Even in marriage
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@Starkinds (32703)
• India
18 Jun 19
Well like or dislike may always change but passion or love never change.
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