Disliking people....

@Aansh13 (11251)
New Delhi, India
June 20, 2019 3:13am CST
Well, I was talking to my friend and she mentioned that she doesn't like her Father in-law. Truly speaking, it's just the matter of choice. Sometimes we dislike people, and there can be numerous reason. I do believe we can just dislike people, even without a certain reason. I just feel uncomfortable around them, there energy doesn't please me. What I believe that disliking someone is okay,but disrespecting, humiliating and degrading them isn't something that is acceptable.
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@tech40 (23128)
• Philippines
20 Jun 19
When I was working before, I dislike someone for an unknown reason, so I tried my best to be with that person to prove to myself that I'm wrong, and it ends of disliking her so much
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@Aansh13 (11251)
• New Delhi, India
21 Jun 19
Hahaha Truly speaking if I dislike someone, I just accept the fact. I never try to change it. I just find a way to live with it
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@tech40 (23128)
• Philippines
21 Jun 19
@Aansh13 haha but it's so hard to live when you hate someone, do you have any plans to find out what's the reason why you hate him or her?
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@Aansh13 (11251)
• New Delhi, India
21 Jun 19
@tech40 Oh no plans, she hate him... She should find out a way to deal with it. Because you can't actually ignore your father in law
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@betlynfrnds (4060)
• United States
20 Jun 19
If I find that I dislike someone, I simply try to distance myself from them entirely. If I can do that then the personality traits that I don't like or even can not tolerate are less likely to have a bad affect on me.
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@Aansh13 (11251)
• New Delhi, India
21 Jun 19
I do the same... I think this is also one of the ways to maintain sanity... Else I will go crazy around them
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• United States
21 Jun 19
@Aansh13 Some years ago my Mother made the statement; "Sometimes it's better just to say goodbye". Though this statement may be used in different situations, I think about it often whenever I think about people I dislike. I don't wish these people any harm but they really need to get out and stay out of my space.
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@Aansh13 (11251)
• New Delhi, India
21 Jun 19
@betlynfrnds Absolutely true....
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@db20747 (43425)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
20 Jun 19
This is true, although I dont like people I am still polite!! Never know when u might need a favor!!
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@Aansh13 (11251)
• New Delhi, India
21 Jun 19
Yeah! I am not very manipulative.... But somehow I manage
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@Mamerto32 (2783)
• Canlubang, Philippines
20 Jun 19
There are some people I don't like, and it is my wildest dream to grab them by the throat and punch them. But I don't want to drop into their level. I just avoid those jerks.
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@Mamerto32 (2783)
• Canlubang, Philippines
20 Jun 19
@Aansh13 and I also have a particular dislike on negative and melodramatic people. Life is hard, these folks made it harder.
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@Aansh13 (11251)
• New Delhi, India
20 Jun 19
@Mamerto32 Yeah actually... They make it difficult...
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@Aansh13 (11251)
• New Delhi, India
20 Jun 19
Same here ... Ditto actually
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@Sojourn (13829)
• India
20 Jun 19
Good topic. There is a that thin line which people often crosses . And I should say I too belong among them sometimes but I have self restraint.
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@Aansh13 (11251)
• New Delhi, India
21 Jun 19
Very well said... Indeed there is a thin line, we all need to figure that out.
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@Starkinds (32703)
• India
20 Jun 19
It's her personal dislikes and she shows that
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@Aansh13 (11251)
• New Delhi, India
20 Jun 19
Disliking isn't bad, I don't question that. My point is why to humiliate...
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@Starkinds (32703)
• India
20 Jun 19
@Aansh13 right disliking doesn't meant that you have a power to humiliate someone
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@Aansh13 (11251)
• New Delhi, India
20 Jun 19
@Starkinds exactly... This what I actually meant by this post
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@allknowing (130067)
• India
20 Jun 19
I also have my preferences and you are right about there not being anything to complain about those who I do not like. .
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@Aansh13 (11251)
• New Delhi, India
20 Jun 19
Yeah! Actually
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
20 Jun 19
That's personal thing ,I have some people whom I dislike .
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@Aansh13 (11251)
• New Delhi, India
20 Jun 19
Yeah! We do dislike people... This is pretty much human
@didinedhia (8475)
• Algeria
22 Jun 19
Yes sometime we dislike
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