The Role Of Physical Attraction

@Spontaneo (14703)
United States
June 21, 2019 9:43pm CST
What role does physical attraction play in whether-or-not you pursue a relationship? When I was younger, I always went for the handsome bad boy. But, I learned the hard way, looks are deceiving. Now, I just want a good, decent, kind, hard-working, lovable guy. I cannot seem to find a man with these qualifications... Not even church. Makes you wonder, huh? So, that is my two cents on physical attraction.
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@Aansh13 (11309)
• New Delhi, India
22 Jun 19
I was never attracted to anyone with good looks, my only criteria was to have good brains, humble and cute... Luckily my husband has all three... Though he is pain sometimes but that's what is normal...
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@Spontaneo (14703)
• United States
22 Jun 19
Awe...
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@db20747 (43434)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
22 Jun 19
The person has to have something that attracts u!! Might be his smile teeth, or cologne!! Then u get to know his personality, then where he works!! Some people go for where he works first!!
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@Spontaneo (14703)
• United States
22 Jun 19
What if they have false teeth, cannot afford Polo and is hard-working but just cannot seem to find a job?
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@db20747 (43434)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
22 Jun 19
@Spontaneo remember that song by denise Williams, let's hear it for the boy!! You can find it on you tube!! If u always have a real good time, lets hear it for the boy!!
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@Spontaneo (14703)
• United States
23 Jun 19
@db20747 Sense of humor then?
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
22 Jun 19
He has to work and take care of his wants and needs and be good in bed...... you asked!
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@Spontaneo (14703)
• United States
22 Jun 19
Oh Lord...
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@JohnRoberts (109857)
• Los Angeles, California
22 Jun 19
Men are way more into and prone to physical attraction. Women are a bit better at seeking other qualities.
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@Spontaneo (14703)
• United States
23 Jun 19
No wonder a guy is no where to be found... I am ugly.
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@weevee18 (2067)
• Philippines
22 Jun 19
It’s the physical appearance that we see first hence I believe it’s usually where attraction starts. I used to be like you as well and yes as I aged, my preference has changed. I’d say I have a lot of people that I am attracted with just by looking at them but when it comes to having a relationship, I always choose a guy where there is a genuine and intimate feeling. I don’t go into relationships just so I won’t be single anymore.
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@Spontaneo (14703)
• United States
23 Jun 19
I do not date just to have a man. I am on the lookout for Mr. Right.
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@weevee18 (2067)
• Philippines
23 Jun 19
@Spontaneo you’re in the right direction
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@arunima25 (85970)
• Bangalore, India
22 Jun 19
I never got attracted to anyone because of physical appearance. Yes surely for celebrities crush it counted. But in real life it was my husband's sense of humor and his genuineness that sweeped me.
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@Spontaneo (14703)
• United States
23 Jun 19
Awe...
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• Philippines
22 Jun 19
I hope you'll find someone that is intended for you. I have also been deceived and learned my lesson the hard way ??
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