What is the quickest way to move on?
By sophie a
@sophie09 (34230)
Indonesia
July 1, 2019 10:52pm CST
When people wanna forget about someone or the memories they had together, they should be able to move on. But for me, moving on is not an easy thing to do. especially if we had been together for long with him/her and had many memories.
what's the quick way to move on? so we can forget someone easily and not looking back again?
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@Miss_Leafy (4296)
• Colombia
2 Jul 19
Dont ask me. I myself am still struggling to move on
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@Miss_Leafy (4296)
• Colombia
2 Jul 19
@cacay1 Three years is not a short time. But I'm happy that finally you could move one. What did you do for healing your heart?
@janethwayne (5191)
• Philippines
2 Jul 19
For me to move on is to focus yourself to other things that can make you occupied.Or you can travel and apply overseas.Being in a new place and meet new people can help a lot.
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@Aansh13 (11433)
• New Delhi, India
2 Jul 19
Well... There is no easy or quick way... If it's that easy then probably it's not even the worth of anything...
I would just let you know one thing, keep yourself busy, don't stay alone and read motivational things...
Everything will fall in place slowly
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@Nakitakona (59987)
• Philippines
2 Jul 19
It's not easy if you've been closed and intimate with each other. It will take time. So what you have to do is : make yourself preoccupied by doing something to forget that person like sports, going to a company or attending party or social gathering.
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@Nakitakona (59987)
• Philippines
2 Jul 19
@sophie09 As often as you go to social gathering, the easy or quick you recover.
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@allknowing (153544)
• India
3 Jul 19
Time diffuses situations. That will happen in your case as well. Have patience.
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@smileyhema (4463)
• United States
2 Jul 19
Just think about life as big deal once, you will get the maturity to move on. It pains, I know! But, practically - there are other incidents and situations likely to happen in the future. No point playing the game that is already over.. 
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@smileyhema (4463)
• United States
2 Jul 19
@sophie09 You're welcome, Sophie. ! =) 
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@crazyhorseladycx (39503)
• United States
2 Jul 19
my suggestion? take 't least a year off from relationships. use that time to look 't the failed relationship 'n put thingies 'n perspective. learn'n grow from such. don't rely'n anybody fer yer happiness, that comes from within.
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@crazyhorseladycx (39503)
• United States
2 Jul 19
@cacay1 thanks. 'tis not fair to either party when folks jest go from relationship to relationship, carryin' 'round that 'baggage' 'n not looked within to see what'd be yer responsibility'n the previous failed'un.
@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
14 Jul 19
@sophie09 Good question! I would say this varies from person to person. But if something is completely over, deleting photos and messages as well as getting rid of anything you have that reminds you of them is a good start!
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@flapiz (23530)
• United Kingdom
2 Jul 19
Well I think the best way to move on is to cut all forms of contact. And delete all photos. If you keep on holding on to those things you’d have a harder time.
