Letting go can be strong too...

@Aansh13 (11433)
New Delhi, India
July 3, 2019 9:40pm CST
I have read, heard everywhere... That holding on makes us strong... But somewhere down the time I have also realised, letting go is also sometimes an attribute of strong.... One of my friend has been in relationship for a long while.. for about 5 years now. She has asked number of times to her BF to settle down, because there are certain issues and pressure at her end about getting married. Her parents are ready to get her married to him.... It's been a while and she is quite pissed that he isn't committing.... Finally she called me yesterday, and told me... She broke up... She let him go... Even when she is falling apart... But still she let him move out because it's coming to her self worth.... Then I realised.... Letting go can be strong too....
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@sophie09 (34230)
• Indonesia
4 Jul 19
i feel bad for your friend, i'm sure your friend deserves better
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@Aansh13 (11433)
• New Delhi, India
4 Jul 19
She indeed.... And it's been crazy now.... He isn't ready to commit her even after 5 years
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@Aansh13 (11433)
• New Delhi, India
4 Jul 19
@sophie09 God knows.... But its high time
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@sophie09 (34230)
• Indonesia
4 Jul 19
@Aansh13 what is he thinking omg
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
4 Jul 19
That must be a great decision from her side. It is good she decided this way, before marrying. If he can't do justice now that means he is not qualified to be there for her. A wise decision by her.
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
5 Jul 19
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@Aansh13 (11433)
• New Delhi, India
4 Jul 19
Absolutely true... Finally she stood for herself...
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@db20747 (43419)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
4 Jul 19
This is good for her!! We should not settle for less than we deserve!!
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@Aansh13 (11433)
• New Delhi, India
4 Jul 19
Actually true ..
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@Sojourn (13833)
• India
4 Jul 19
She is a powerful woman to let her go and I believe that too.
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@Aansh13 (11433)
• New Delhi, India
4 Jul 19
Yeah! A wise decision indeed...
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
4 Jul 19
Absolutely letting go makes you strong. It is hard to let go of things in our life.
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@Aansh13 (11433)
• New Delhi, India
4 Jul 19
I understood it later in life...
@Miss_Leafy (4296)
• Colombia
4 Jul 19
That's true. Why should we waste our time to wait for someone who is not committing.
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@Aansh13 (11433)
• New Delhi, India
4 Jul 19
Absolutely
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