The Worst Person Ever...
By Amanda
@amandajay (23264)
New Zealand
July 10, 2019 9:41pm CST
I'm not in a good mood again. My husband and I were having some arguments day before yesterday and he didn't talk to me whole day yesterday. I tried to talk to him, but he just ignored. So I thought, why should I, since it's not my fault.
And few minutes back he sent me an email with a link of a tour package to Rangitoto Island for this weekend. It was a god offer for a family and i went through on it, but I found it's more like hiking and camping, so with kids we might not able to do that.
So I checked for another options and found a place in Hamilton which is low cost and has lot of places to see. I sent him details, and he was ok. I thought, fine at last we can have a nice time without fights.
But Nooo... he sent me another email saying, "ask your mum to give some money if she want to join us".... What a.......... I got angry and reply back saying that I can't do it, I'll ask my mum to go back, but I can't ask money.... how can I?
He is so mean.... this is more than enough. He always humiliate me and my parents reminding about our family matters.
I really want the divorce.
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9 responses
@flapiz (22403)
• United Kingdom
11 Jul 19
Well that’s really rude. In our culture, the husband usually provides for the family and that includes the in-laws. Even in a mix income family, if there are family vacations it’s both the couple paying but never the in-laws. And that’s just one person.
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@flapiz (22403)
• United Kingdom
11 Jul 19
@amandajay But is your husband always like that or is it just that he’s having a bad day?
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@amandajay (23264)
• New Zealand
11 Jul 19
yes she is our visitor. how can i ask money from her, and we are a separate family. I don't wanna depend on others. we should make our own way
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@amandajay (23264)
• New Zealand
11 Jul 19
@flapiz he was like this always. i was bearing this for years and years now
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@RasmaSandra (73444)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
11 Jul 19
Sound like you have things to work out or to go separate ways.
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@infatuatedbby (95001)
• United States
12 Jul 19
That isn't nice. It's 4 (your family) vs 1 (your mom) another person wouldn't be much more! If he's booking a vacation, your mom a guest shouldn't have to pay.
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@infatuatedbby (95001)
• United States
14 Jul 19
@amandajay I see you were able to go on the family trip. Glad it was fun and worked out after all!!
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@amandajay (23264)
• New Zealand
14 Jul 19
Yeah that’s what I was trying to make them realise. Finally it was successful
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@amandajay (23264)
• New Zealand
14 Jul 19
@infatuatedbby yes i could mange to do that finally for the kids sake
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@amandajay (23264)
• New Zealand
20 Aug 19
I know, but Im done with this man yaar
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@LowRiderX (22907)
• Serbia
14 Jul 19
I'm sorry to read this. I believe that there is a disagreement at the moment, but do not make decisions quickly. Sit, talk, mention it to see his reaction, but slowly...I feel sorry 
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@amandajay (23264)
• New Zealand
14 Jul 19
Yes hope everything will be fine now. Thanks for your words my dear friend
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@amandajay (23264)
• New Zealand
14 Jul 19
@LowRiderX yup hopefully, im ok at the moment.
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@LowRiderX (22907)
• Serbia
14 Jul 19
@amandajay I believe everything will be fine and I'm glad because of that! You are welcome
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@hereandthere (45651)
• Philippines
11 Jul 19
did you talk about these things when you were just dating, like how finances will be handled, etc?
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@hereandthere (45651)
• Philippines
16 Jul 19
@amandajay i see. so, it was an arranged marriage and you didn't get to know each other well?
@amandajay (23264)
• New Zealand
14 Jul 19
Oh no, I was just 23 and I disn’t even think about marriage, but my parents wanted me to get married soon.
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@LindaOHio (156174)
• United States
11 Jul 19
I'm so sorry you have to go through all this.
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@amandajay (23264)
• New Zealand
11 Jul 19
Thanks for being in my side Linda. I'm so stressed.
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