Love-Hate Relationship

@JustBhem (70555)
Davao, Philippines
July 12, 2019 4:25am CST
I have this kind of relationship with my siblings. Sometimes I hate them for being rude and stupid, and I love them because they are my Brothers, the same blood. I don’t have that moment with my Brother during their growing years because I was away from them, my Mother gave me away so that I can’t control her being irresponsible. Though it was a long time it’s still pains me. If she did not do that, I am sure they will have a better future under me. If only I have a lot, I can help them move forward. Too bad, I’m too sick to do that. My prayers for them is to be better with time, be healthy together with their families. I want to see them okay with their lives. I love them and sometimes I hate them. Do you have this kind of relationship with your siblings or friends?
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@brokenbee (11090)
• Philippines
13 Jul 19
when we were kids, yes, we had that kind of relationship. But now that we are grown ups, there is no more room for hatred... I am the youngest and they are too kind to me.
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@brokenbee (11090)
• Philippines
13 Jul 19
@JustBhem I hope your siblings will treat you better from now on...
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
13 Jul 19
That’s great. Ours are different.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
13 Jul 19
@brokenbee I am still hoping for thatz
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
12 Jul 19
I do not have that kind of relationship with my siblings.
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
12 Jul 19
@JustBhem we are all girls but my sisters and me have a 4-5 years gap, they have one year gap.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
12 Jul 19
I am sure you have harmonious one.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
13 Jul 19
@rakski Are you the youngest?
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@db20747 (43427)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
13 Jul 19
My family is unusual!! They got lotsa problems!! But i have to be nice to them!! Looks like i always need their help!!
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
13 Jul 19
I think we all are.
@thelme55 (76476)
• Germany
12 Jul 19
What do you mean by given away? If you don´t mind asking me that question. No, I don´t have that kind of love and hate relationship with my siblings. I might be angry with them sometimes but I still love them no matter what.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
12 Jul 19
When I was 16, my Mother gave me away to my Father’s Aunt. The reason was she doesn’t want me to meddle on her affair. When my Father got to prison, my Mother acted as if she was free to do the things she wants. And we are under the care of our cousin who took care of my younger Brother before.
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@thelme55 (76476)
• Germany
12 Jul 19
@JustBhem I see. Now I understand. Thanks for the information.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
13 Jul 19
@thelme55 Yes, that is why I feel sad for my siblings, they didn’t have a good growing days.
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@Starkinds (32703)
• India
12 Jul 19
You are very cheerful my dear
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
12 Jul 19
Thanks.
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@Starkinds (32703)
• India
12 Jul 19
@JustBhem welcome
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@sophie09 (34246)
• Indonesia
12 Jul 19
yeah! i love and hate my older sister at the same times lol
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
12 Jul 19
Do you think it’s a natural?
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@sophie09 (34246)
• Indonesia
12 Jul 19
@JustBhem i dont know, but maybe? that happens alot to siblings
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
12 Jul 19
@sophie09 Yes, but at the end of the day they are still our siblings.
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@yanzalong (18984)
• Indonesia
12 Jul 19
I don't have that kind of relationship.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
12 Jul 19
You don’t have a siblings?
• United States
12 Jul 19
My sister and I have our ups and downs. Not just with siblings but with parents, significant other, friends.