Human tendency to underestimate.....

@Aansh13 (11433)
New Delhi, India
July 19, 2019 12:46am CST
While heading to office, the girl sitting next to me in metro said something like- don't show your real emotions. Never show too much love, affection and care. We humans have a tendency to underestimate things that we get for free. Firstly I felt, what rubbish is she talking but after a while, I started to think about it. Is it actually true....???
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19 Jul 19
If you don't always show your emotions, it will be too late by the time you do. If those who appreciate, they will not take your feelings for granted no matter how much of it you show.
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@Aansh13 (11433)
• New Delhi, India
19 Jul 19
Very true.... I think it's about the fact of taking people for granted
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20 Jul 19
@Aansh13 Give or take, feelings or people are the same.
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@skysnap (20152)
19 Jul 19
In corporate context, it is true. if we show what we feel, people around manipulate us. This applies especially if you are a man. women get a pass due to social construct. like if men cry they get used like people create scenarios to get that man out of rat race. kind of like big boss tv series. you cry you lose the race. World will literally crush you under foot and take advantage of you every step of the way.
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@Aansh13 (11433)
• New Delhi, India
19 Jul 19
Very well said.... I like how you have put up men and women scenarios.
@Janet357 (75638)
19 Jul 19
i dont hold myself from showing kind gestures to.people. i hug my husband i say i miss you to.friends. they are free. so why not give them such?
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@Aansh13 (11433)
• New Delhi, India
19 Jul 19
I believe the same... I am someone who expresses freely. To the people I love I don't mind confessing hundred times...
@Nakitakona (59987)
• Philippines
20 Jul 19
She's may be right for she had experienced it.
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