first love
By Yumeko
@aureategloom (11025)
Bosnia And Herzegovina
July 30, 2019 4:10am CST
i know maybe some people here think it's pathetic, because i used to be the same and i know that some people keep that opinion their whole life.
when i was in high school i rarely liked anybody. and those teen relationships were something that kinda annoyed me - you like somebody, you date for a month (maybe more) and then you break up and as soon as that happens you find somebody new. what's the point of that kind of dating?
so i decided not to have any relationships until i'm sure that i want to be with somebody, because i was sure that love doesn't exist.
and then that happened in november last year. i met him in the bus. by accident. i didn't even want to meet him at first, because i was shy, but universe decided that some old man comes to me and tells me to sit next to that guy. and here we are - dating and having a great time with each other.
i don't know how long it's going to last, but i'm really happy that i met him that day and that this is my first experience in relationship. i'm glad that i'm not dating a guy who cares only about himself, like many girls do and then they get hurt and never want to date again because they think that all men are the same.
and when did you meet your first love? how did you meet her/him?
how it ended?
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9 responses
@weevee18 (2065)
• Philippines
30 Jul 19
@aureategloom 
my brain can’t tell me who my first love is but if that’s the case then we met at church. He courted me for about a year but the relationship lasted for 9 months only. I ended it since it was hurting me more than it’s making me happy.
my brain can’t tell me who my first love is but if that’s the case then we met at church. He courted me for about a year but the relationship lasted for 9 months only. I ended it since it was hurting me more than it’s making me happy.1 person likes this
@aureategloom (11025)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
30 Jul 19
well it's usually called so haha
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@aureategloom (11025)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
30 Jul 19
@weevee18 well 9 months is pretty much time and good thing you ended it if it wasn't making you happy.
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@aureategloom (11025)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
30 Jul 19
and are you still together or it ended?
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@aureategloom (11025)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
30 Jul 19
this is about first love. i know it sometimes ends badly, but it's always something special because it's first love and i guess people remember it for a long time.
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@Aansh13 (11433)
• New Delhi, India
30 Jul 19
@aureategloom
I would agree to that....
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@aureategloom (11025)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
30 Jul 19
that doesn't sound quite right, but if everything's going good with two of you, it's fine...i guess
@raveeen (3457)
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30 Jul 19
At school, actually I'm a transferee in that private school then when I reached 9th grade, I was the president of the Dance club org until I graduated, he's also a member when we both reached 10th grade, I knew him since I was on 7th grade, he started to courted me when we was on 9th grade, he courted me for 5months? (i guess) then until now we're still together. He's my first love and I'm he's first love too. We're 4 years & months. It was 2015 back then and until now. 
We are both very happy, we've been thru a lot because of immaturity before but thanks because we both grow and now I can say that we are mature enough for things and we know how should we handle every situation. Me and my boyfriend got each other's back and we only trust each other not our friends. That's why we really love each other because he's my first love and I'm his first love too and we are in 4 years lol
We are both very happy, we've been thru a lot because of immaturity before but thanks because we both grow and now I can say that we are mature enough for things and we know how should we handle every situation. Me and my boyfriend got each other's back and we only trust each other not our friends. That's why we really love each other because he's my first love and I'm his first love too and we are in 4 years lol 1 person likes this
@amandajay (23262)
• New Zealand
1 Aug 19
it was back in my school time... long time ago
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@Nakitakona (59987)
• Philippines
1 Aug 19
We met in school and became fast friends, lovers and a married couple.
@Starkinds (32737)
• India
30 Jul 19
Would like to say there is no perfect word for first love I can just say it first crush and maybe it's start earlier of our lives.
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@aureategloom (11025)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
30 Jul 19
well, depends on how that "first love story" ends. my friend met her boyfriend when she was 15 and they are engaged now.
