Tantrums

By C
@ShyBear88 (59342)
Sterling, Virginia
August 4, 2019 6:52pm CST
Oh my little 4 year has been having tantrums today. He doesn’t like anything we have told him today. Little little bugs way but he isn’t having it when we are making it clear it’s mommy and daddy’s way. Life is rough when your 4 years old and want everything but can’t have it all.
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• United States
5 Aug 19
I hope he gets better soon.
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• United States
5 Aug 19
@ShyBear88 Gets better as in having a better rest of his day. They can overcome their tantrum and feel better. Sometimes its just that they're tired, hungry, or not feeling well.
@ShyBear88 (59342)
• Sterling, Virginia
5 Aug 19
@infatuatedbby yes I know what tantrums are he is my 3rd. His tantrum was after this. This was just the most recent picture I took of him.
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@ShyBear88 (59342)
• Sterling, Virginia
5 Aug 19
It’s a tantrum he isn’t sick. There isn’t anything to get better from. He’s just upset that is normal for a toddlers.
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@marguicha (230332)
• Chile
5 Aug 19
I would let him get tired of his tantrum. You cannot give in.
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@ShyBear88 (59342)
• Sterling, Virginia
5 Aug 19
You can’t let them throw a tantrum every where you also have to explain why their behavior isn’t liked. It’s understand level he isn’t happy but to cry and get angry will not change it and it’ll enforce us to have to punish you if you continue. You can choice to stop now or keep going.
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@marguicha (230332)
• Chile
5 Aug 19
@ShyBear88 My best man friend had to put up with a tantrum of her youngest girl at the supermarket. She wanted something, he said no and she threw herself to the floor and started to yell. My friend threw himself at the floor and yelled much to the astonishment and the shame of the little girl. She stopped crying. She never did it again.
@ShyBear88 (59342)
• Sterling, Virginia
5 Aug 19
@marguicha my kids have never thrown themselves to the floor but they do stomp there foot when angry and cross there arms and do the pours. It’s cute but st the same time I have to keep the face of don’t do that.
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@marlina (154103)
• Canada
25 Aug 19
I hope the little one gets used to not always having his way.
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@ShyBear88 (59342)
• Sterling, Virginia
25 Aug 19
They do over time all kids have tantrums it’s actually very normal and very healthy for them to show this. It means they are developing. It’s a reaction to there one emotions but since children do not understand emotions they get overwhelmed and acted out. As adults we are to talk to them and explain what they are feeling. I try to ask are you angry or are you man? They will normally answer with a yes or no? Depending on that answer I’ll ask are you Sad?
@kobesbuddy (78833)
• East Tawas, Michigan
5 Aug 19
If they aren't made to mind at 4 years old, they turn into unruly teens and eventually, undisciplined adults. My children didn't throw temper tantrums, they knew I would never put up with it!
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@ShyBear88 (59342)
• Sterling, Virginia
5 Aug 19
He’ll get over it over time. He threw it, didn’t stop when asked for time out. Then he had to apologize. All over some days there are less and others theirs more.
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@ShyBear88 (59342)
• Sterling, Virginia
5 Aug 19
@kobesbuddy spanking isn’t the answer to everything. He and his big sister actually enjoy getting spankings so they get a different from of punishment. Punishment are not meant to scared or have them not do things. It’s show them they should use there words.
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@kobesbuddy (78833)
• East Tawas, Michigan
5 Aug 19
@ShyBear88 If I had thrown a temper tantrum, my father would have spanked my butt hard! I never would have thrown a second one, that's for sure.
@sophie09 (34230)
• Indonesia
5 Aug 19
hmm i hope he will feel better in no time
@ShyBear88 (59342)
• Sterling, Virginia
5 Aug 19
It’s just a tantrum nothing for him to feel better about
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@ShyBear88 (59342)
• Sterling, Virginia
5 Aug 19
@sophie09 he’ll get up
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@sophie09 (34230)
• Indonesia
5 Aug 19
@ShyBear88 oh okay, i hope he will be back to feel happy agaiin, not upset anymore i mean