I’m Completely Open With Her
@Michellekidwell (29953)
Sonora, California
August 6, 2019 2:38am CST
Sometimes she asks about my condition, and why I do or do t do certain things, like the other day she asked why I’m not married and I explained to her I’ve bern engaged and found out my then fiancé was cheating on me, so I refused to put up with that nonsense! She asked too why I don’t have children of my own, she knows Amber thinks of me like a Mom, and that I had a big part in raising her, but she really wants me to have a baby, so I explained to her my condition is genetic and there is a chance that the baby would have a more severe form, we also have a history of Factor V Liedien Deficiency, so it’s not a decision I made lightly, and like I said I had Amber, who to me is very much a daughter, and I have Little Miss!
I did tell her too that if the opportunity ever came up for me to adopt I would definitely do so! I always had a special place in my heart for those with Special Needs, she accepted my explanation, and understood it, she is only ten, but she is a bright young lady, and I’m proud of her! But I feel it’s best to be honest then to sugarcoat the truth!
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@Janet357 (75638)
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6 Aug 19
you have nieces, no need to adopt. though that is your decision. i have no kids too, but i have nieces and nephews. my aunt adopted someone. not our blood. that someone.acts arrogantly, dominating my cousin who is blood and flesh of my aunt.
but when it comes to.love, i think it is not yet late
please give yourself a chance to love someone again:)
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@Michellekidwell (29953)
• Sonora, California
6 Aug 19
I will, when I find the right person, I’ve dated since, but nothing serious!
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@Janet357 (75638)
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6 Aug 19
@Michellekidwell there is one for you. i heard a lot of.stories how they found their true love at 40s, 50s and so on.
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@Michellekidwell (29953)
• Sonora, California
6 Aug 19
Yes it is, she’s a really bright kid, and she understands and generally accepts what I tell her! Your right though, it’s harder to talk about matter like this with acults!
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@LindaOHio (222280)
• United States
6 Aug 19
It's better to be open with Little Miss than try to explain around the truth.
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@Nakitakona (59987)
• Philippines
6 Aug 19
Kids are too curious to know everything. Just like my 6-year old granddaughter, she is too inquisitive. She keeps asking questions.
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@Michellekidwell (29953)
• Sonora, California
6 Aug 19
Curiosity is the sign of an inquisitive mind!
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