We're back together / myLot

@carebear29 (32002)

Wausau, Wisconsin

August 26, 2019 11:35am CST

So my husband finally came back home about two weeks ago and claims he broke up with his girlfriend after 8 months because she kept lieing to him and a bunch of other stuff. Since he's been home I've been very skiddish honestly and he knows it because his ex girlfriend is still going around saying they are still together and much more. I only gave him this very last chance to save our 15 year marriage because of our son. I tried to move on and every time I got with a guy my husband would have a fit. His ex put him in debt n now I'm trying to help him get out of it. I'm hoping things get better with time and soon I can trust him again. P. S. Sorry it's been a long while since I posted

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Michelle

@infatuatedbby (94909)

• United States

26 Aug 19

He had many chances prior... when all goes bad he comes back - hopefully he can redeem himself. Have you both tried marriage counseling?

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Dominique

@dodo19 (48166)

• Beaconsfield, Quebec

26 Aug 19

Honestly, I do hope that things turn out well for you. I think you've given him too many chances, but you have to do what you feel is right.

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rsa101

@rsa101 (40987)

• Philippines

27 Aug 19

Well you can always give him the chance. But restoring the chance may take some time because giving him another chance would make him think either he could do it again in the future since you could always give him another chance. Goodluck on you hoping things will change for the better with you two.

Tammy

@tammys85 (31417)

• Baltimore, Maryland

3 Sep 19

His ex-girlfriend lying to him sounds like karma for what he put you through. I really do hope things work out and you can be happy. I'd be iffy about helping him out of his debt though.

mor

@stringer321 (5682)

• Kiryat Ata, Israel

5 Sep 19

Dear Nikki, my parents lived together for 10 years after being divorced and it didn't work out. They argued, they got down on each other. If you want your kid to not suffer from your relationship with your ex husband, you better try to stay friends first. See if you respect each other and have harmony between you. Maybe the kid is better with the two of you not at the same house. Or else, he will absorb the bad examples of arguing, fighting, complaining...

@Loverabbit (3401)

• Karachi, Pakistan

26 Aug 19

I don't know much about your life sorry...but from what I read I don't think you need him...might be a last chance but what if he is just tricking you for debts and he goes off again?