Do you think far ahead in the future before getting into relationships?

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I might be thinking too much but my worries might be reasonable though I am not sure if other people worry about that same thing too. I usually think ahead about how things will go in the future. When you commit to a relationship, you are thinking about a future with that other person. But then you also have to think if you are financially ready to provide for them in the future. (Bills to pay, rent to pay, food and living expenses to pay, providing for the children in the future, school fees) If you a are a normal office employee and earning normal salary, it takes time to save up to be able to buy a house for your family. If you care so much about your partner, you would want to provide at least a comfortable life to your family. So not getting into a committed relationship until such time you are financially stable and able to provide would be very logical. I would not be fair to your partner also if you end up in a few years saying that you still don't have enough to provide for a comfortable family life and end up wasting each other's time (years spend that you won't be able to get back). Though i am quite sure a lot of people are in the same situation also but still go through a relationship and even get married. I'm not quite sure how people think about this or people maybe don't even worry about this. Possible they would want to deal with these worries once they get there? What are your thoughts on this?