Deciding to move on....

@Aansh13 It's really hard to come up with something to say as there is more to the story than just a marriage falling apart. It goes way more in depth than that so I'm afraid all I have to say is, if both sides want to make it work then they need to sit down and talk about it or get some professional help. Or if it's clearly a relationship that is unhealthy, the best you can do is be there for your friend and try to understand what she wants and why and if there's any chance of her trying to move forward while letting go of the relationship. Again, it's really hard to know or suggest anything without knowing the whole story but I still wish them the very best with whatever happens.

we cant change past but yes we can make our feature. its a tough time for her but she has to move on and forget the past at its part of life although it's tough but still need to move on. in our life, we must have to come on forget or forgive status.

You know, I am a woman with a divorce on top, I married very young and I divorced only 8 months after getting married, as such I think that the best thing to do when you are not in your place, or at the time, or with the right person is simply to get away and leave everything there, not all separation is bad, there are necessary separations, it should never be considered a divorce as a failure, on the contrary, it is a trial and error to learn and have experiences that as individuals we must obtain to mature, to grow and at the same time apply that knowledge when the right person reaches our lives, a divorce is the end of an episode with only one person, but not for a lifetime, it is not a failure, failure is something that does not it can never be done again in life, and in these things, life always gives you new opportunities.

You have to move on in tough times too. It lifts your spirits. Lol

It is really easy said than done... "Life must go on" They used to say...

Oh thos is sad, very heart-breaking. I hate divorce

You have told her everything she needed to hear and you know her way much better than us. I just have to agree with you that she has to move on and plan her next move. What she really needs right now are not more words but a friend's support. And I'm sure you can give it to her.

That is something she needs to decide for herself. What caused this for you to tell that they are falling apart in the marriage? Well, letting go is the first step towards looking for a new dream.

planning for her future with or without her husband is a good start

This is sad. But yes, anything that is not meant to give us happiness should definitely be discarded

She is going through a tough phase and will surely need an honest genuine support. I am glad that you are giving her the one. She will need time to come over and move. Just hold her hand through that.

I hope she has established something for herself while in marriage like career, clique of friends. She can turn on these during this hard time.

Perhaps your friend must have tried to stay together the last time but when nothing is happening, she took the right step that she is taking divers and the biggest thing is that it is difficult to be with the person you love and when she is your If you stop paying attention at all, then the worst time of life is the one you love, that should stop caring for you