We're meant to fight some battles alone.....

@Aansh13 (11433)
New Delhi, India
September 10, 2019 1:48am CST
In one of my older post, I talked about my friend who was going through a divorce. She met me today in office, after almost a week. She was looking pale and stressed. I knew and understand what she is going through.... But with all the passing years, what I have learned is- you're meant to fight some battles alone. It's not that we don't have people around, but it's just that they are individual battles and it's difficult to make them understand to others, no matter how close the other one is. I do know, not all battles can be won, but as long as you don't loose yourself in the battle , you are still a WINNER.... Isn't this true...?
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• United States
14 Sep 19
i sure feel fer yer friend, hon. some divorces can get purty nasty. 'tis true, some battles one can 'nly do 'lone. 'tis nice to've a bit 'f support though, somethin' to give ya strength to fight to retain yerself. somethin' simple, e'en jest a card to let folks know that they're special 'n their lives 've meanin' can be a huge boost to their morale.
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@Aansh13 (11433)
• New Delhi, India
18 Sep 19
Very well said
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• United States
18 Sep 19
@Aansh13 thanks :)
@Starkinds (32737)
• India
10 Sep 19
I agree that any of your problems in life, you can tell anyone, no matter how much, someone will give advice to listen to you, but there are some battles in life that you have to fight alone.
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@Aansh13 (11433)
• New Delhi, India
11 Sep 19
Very well said Jaya.... I would agree to every single word of yours...
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@Starkinds (32737)
• India
11 Sep 19
@Aansh13 thanks my dear.
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@shaggin (74987)
• United States
14 Sep 19
Yes this is something she has to go through on her own but being able to talk to you about how she is feeling will be very helpful to her.
@birjudanak (14316)
• India
10 Sep 19
its a really tough time for her as she only knows what stress she feeling but sometimes they only know what solution of it. as a friend, you already tried your best to make her come out for what she facing. what i am thinking is that with time she will find the way to come out from it as now its very fresh pain so maybe she feel more depressed and i wish that somehow God will help her.
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@Aansh13 (11433)
• New Delhi, India
11 Sep 19
Yeah! Actually... I mean certain things we can only imagine but the person going through it can actually feel the agony. Blessings for her...
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@parpande (1515)
• Bangalore, India
10 Sep 19
True to an extent but in terms of divorce it takes a toll on inner health for that particular person. Definitely, not all battles can be won and the ones never won are not lost either.
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@Aansh13 (11433)
• New Delhi, India
11 Sep 19
Wow!!! I like how you explained. That's a real piece of motivation. Thank you for putting this down
@Janet357 (75638)
10 Sep 19
True. Divorce is the loneliest chapter of ones life.
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@Aansh13 (11433)
• New Delhi, India
11 Sep 19
Indeed... God bless her