Adoption or Surrogacy - which one would you prefer?

@amirev777 (4117)
India
September 11, 2019 12:43pm CST
My close friend, who has just crossed 40, and has been married for more than 10 years without any child, is desperate to be a father. But since his wife cannot be a mother due to medical reasons, he is facing a dilemma - whether to adopt a child or go for surrogacy. Which one would you prefer?
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@maximax8 (31042)
• United Kingdom
11 Sep 19
I would prefer to adopt a child or a sibling group. In my first year of teaching I knew a lady that adopted two boys and a girl. There was also an adopted girl. It is wonderful to give a loving home to a child that needs parents.
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@maximax8 (31042)
• United Kingdom
11 Sep 19
@amirev777 Long Lost Family program has shown some adults their biological mum. It is wonderful to take in a needy child.
@amirev777 (4117)
• India
11 Sep 19
@maximax8 Yes, adoption surely is a noble deed, indeed.
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@Starkinds (32737)
• India
11 Sep 19
To adopt a child, because a homeless child get beautiful family.
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@amirev777 (4117)
• India
11 Sep 19
Yes, you are right - I will certainly advise my friend to adopt.
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@Starkinds (32737)
• India
11 Sep 19
@amirev777 thanks dear. It's a very great opportunity to adopt a child.
@dodo19 (48142)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
11 Sep 19
I would probably go adoption. There are a lot of kids out there who do want a family and a home, and they do deserve that. That would be the way I would go.
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@amirev777 (4117)
• India
11 Sep 19
@dodo19 Yes, most of his close friends have advised him to go for adoption.
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@mrki444 (15162)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
11 Sep 19
I would say adoption.
• United States
11 Sep 19
I think I would prefer adoption. I think it would be hard for someone who carried the child to distance themselves.