How do we help ourselves to go through difficult times

Bulgaria
September 11, 2019 1:53pm CST
Since February me and my partner are working on having baby ! Yes, I know... such a lovely time . But is already September and we have no result yet... I know doctors say is normal to try up to year before you start worry, but doesn't not change the facts and the emotions going inside us. To wait every month for the moment. Trying not to worry when you feel with every month that pass the stress is getting more and more. How do you help yourself when you are stress , worry etc ? I'll be glad if you share some positive stories , experience or whatever
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@Ladanger (11074)
• United States
11 Sep
Music is what helps me. They say that you should try having a baby 8 days before your period. Something like that i have heard because you ovulate.
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• Bulgaria
11 Sep
Yes, music is always a good idea ! Ovulation is topic that can drive you crazy when I speak with doctors or read more and more information get just more complicated and in the end of the day is about when it means to be will be.
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@Ladanger (11074)
• United States
11 Sep
@Sisleysis how many times have you tried? You shouldn't give up easily.
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• Bulgaria
11 Sep
@Ladanger we are working on in since February 8th circles
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@Aleskys (428)
• Venezuela
11 Sep
Friend I had a similar experience, 8 months trying and every month that I felt belly ache depressed me and my medical exams were fine, the doctor told me that anxiety was bad for that, so I gave courage and I forgot the matter, when I felt belly ache, I didn't think about it, I followed my normal routine after 3 months plus BINGO yami daughter is 2 years and three months old, so relax the anxiety, it contributes unfavorably in these cases.
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• Bulgaria
11 Sep
Thank you so much for sharing your experience! God bless your daughter! I hope soon I'll finally see the positive test. Will be going soon for general blood exam and hopefully all be fine
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@Aleskys (428)
• Venezuela
11 Sep
@Sisleysis Thank you and amen trust God soon you'll see I still keep that test that was positive on September 19 three years ago and I'm still excited to see it.
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• Bulgaria
12 Sep
@Aleskys I can't wait to see it . Hopefully this month finally. Thank you
@avi256 (5440)
• Pune, India
12 Sep
Sometimes it happens when you are thinking least about it and just living in present.
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• Bulgaria
12 Sep
This is so true ! But as every thing we plan not easy to don't think about it
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• United States
12 Sep
@Sisleysis My Mom often said, if you simply live your best life and believe that what is suppose to be will be. I try often to remember that and enjoy the moments. It is very hard to simply live in the present and Mom was great at that.
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• Bulgaria
12 Sep
@Writingghost you had great mother!
@LestatPen (5382)
• United States
11 Sep
Well just let it come natural. and the baby will come I bet. I am starting to get hungry. Have a lovely day.
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@psanasangma (3017)
• India
18 Sep
Stress is something that cannot be avoided it always comes back.. Sometimes for me being alone, travelling to some places that I never visit works
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• Germany
12 Sep
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