Grandad's Funeral

United States
September 19, 2019 12:54pm CST
I have been thinking and Grandad a lot. Probably because I have been reading his books and his poetry. I was seven when he passed away and I will always be grateful to my father for the way he handled my choices for the funeral. He took me to the church and showed my all the flowers and Grandad. It was just the two of us in the room. He had me touch him so that I would understand the part of him that had loved was not there. His spirit was now in heaven and with family. Someday I would join him there. He explained that at the funeral many would cry and they would tell stories about Grandad. He gave me the choice of staying at home with an aunt or going to the funeral. I stayed home. They did an audio recording of the funeral and have that. I am so thankful it all happened that way.
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@CarolDM (203451)
• Nashville, Tennessee
19 Sep 19
What a wonderful thing to do for a child. This helps you understand what is going on, as best as you can.
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• United States
19 Sep 19
I will be forever grateful for that gift he gave me that day. I think it helped to prepare me for many other situations.
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@CarolDM (203451)
• Nashville, Tennessee
19 Sep 19
@Writingghost You were blessed, I never got that. Losing my Mom at 14, I just kind of followed everyone else.
• Mexico
19 Sep 19
I thinkhe handled the situation really well
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• United States
19 Sep 19
Me too. I got to understand what was going on with simply me and my Dad.
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@MNRFOLEY (435)
• Brisbane, Australia
19 Sep 19
He must been such a compassionate person. That was a great way to make you understand the circumstance that he is going through.
@LindaOHio (157012)
• United States
19 Sep 19
I'm glad your Father explained everything to you and let you see your Grandad.
@Starkinds (32703)
• India
19 Sep 19
I'm sorry for you
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• United States
19 Sep 19
No need to be sorry. It was long ago and may father handled it well. Thanks for the thoughts I appreciate it.