Everyday being scolded by parents does it have effect to the child?
By Metatronik
@Metatronik (6198)
Pasay, Philippines
October 4, 2019 6:27am CST
At times it is understandable why some kids are being scolded by parents especially that they need to realize their mistakes and listen to their parents. But I think the habitual negative discussion especially every morning is no longer an advantage but may have a bad effect to the child. Not all the kids but there are kids that are being fed up which is no longer tolerable to them and I can't blame them at all. I believe that having negative discussion or being scolded every now and then is no longer an advantage because negative vibration in the morning is not good to us emotionally and mentally. People are different for being receptive on this not all can ignore, it is like the bullying that at times it can still ignore but there are instances that can no longer acceptable that needs to take action on that part. There are parents may think that scolding the child everyday can still have the positive result and the kid will be better or they are expecting much but at times this is the reason why they become more rebellious. The content and the words we throw matters at all.
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@AKRao24 (27422)
• India
4 Oct 19
No ! Scolding the children for no reason repeatedly can hamper their emotional growth and they may suffer from mental problems too! In fact this can be classified as mental abuse of the children too! In fact the children are to scolded only when they have done something wrong intentionally . Otherwise explaining the things to them in a nice manner should suffice. Regular svolding is not at all a soultion!
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@Metatronik (6198)
• Pasay, Philippines
5 Oct 19
I agree the regular scolding would be only having negative effect to the child. Otherwise if the child knows he will just scolded every morning he will avoid the breakfast. I also hate it when first thing in the morning has negative vibration already.
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@AKRao24 (27422)
• India
5 Oct 19
@Metatronik , Scolding or any sort of punishment is a negative thing and with this we can't win the heart of the kids! To win the heart of kid we need to use love, affection and kindness!
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@anya12adwi (10251)
• India
4 Oct 19
Regular and daily scolding is A BIG NO NO in case of any human being!! Be it be an old man, or teen, or an adult or a baby!
@Metatronik (6198)
• Pasay, Philippines
5 Oct 19
The one who scolds must know how to limit himself and at times the person is not being objective but being just a nagger who has full of hatred at all.
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@anya12adwi (10251)
• India
5 Oct 19
@Metatronik Yep! We do much harm to others without realising! We don't know what the other person is going through!
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@maximax8 (31043)
• United Kingdom
4 Oct 19
Scolding a child hurts his or her feelings. It upsets their emotional growth and will go up feeling very stressed. I used to work as a primary school teacher. During my teacher training they told us "catch them being good". Giving praise is much more effective at building a high self esteem that scolding is. It is wise to give a child a choice then the child feels happier. If you force something on a child then he or she will feel upset. A parent should speak in a positive way to their child. In the classroom I would gently say back to work and the child would realize I was seeing them. Once I had three children in my class with challenging behavior. I kept them in at playtime to gently mend their ways. They even could miss a few minutes of Golden Time.
@maximax8 (31043)
• United Kingdom
5 Oct 19
@Metatronik One child way in the past got told off by his father. He said "there's a telling off just in the case. I am not in the mood for anymore annoyance". The child found his father was not encouraging when he was grown up. He was at 20 years old trying to do some handy work and his father said "don't bang your thumb". This made him feel nervous.
@Metatronik (6198)
• Pasay, Philippines
5 Oct 19
Scolding for no reason at all is a waste of time and productivity, it also gives stress to the child and a confusion too. I just hate it at times when your emotions are being dictated by parents.
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