Talking about FINANCES is one of the important matters in marriage

Pasay, Philippines
October 5, 2019 5:42am CST
I still believe that finances is one of the most important matters to talk about to avoid as well the argument regarding the expenses. Though at times the argument happens which is understandable and part of our lives especially when it comes to talk about the expenses. Seeing the common problem of some couples there are things that is already alarming. There are some husbands who doesn't want to keep their money to their wives as they already assume that wives will only spend to the things that are not needed at all. And if the wives are asking for money to buy some important matters for the household and especially to their child they will got angry at all. At times they tend to insult their wives that affects their emotions. They will even insult their wives like they are senseless and all. We don't have to be rich when we get married but at least stable enough to stand on our own in terms of financial freedom.
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@vsai2008 (11794)
• India
5 Oct 19
I completely agree with you It is better to talk about everything before marriage esp finances. And we even need to have some evidence in case anything goes wrong, that the sad part.
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@Starkinds (32737)
• India
5 Oct 19
Sai you well said I think before marriage we should clear all the things all the matter and then look forward about marriage
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• Pasay, Philippines
5 Oct 19
There are too many important matters that couples usually ignore and not taking it seriously as they thought it doesn't matter without realizing that it can also turn into disasters. I've been reading lots of stories regarding that issue that also affects the family even of course the children.
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@vsai2008 (11794)
• India
6 Oct 19
@Metatronik if the children are involved then it is a different matter altogether. It is a very sad situation to be in.
@Janet357 (75638)
5 Oct 19
thats so rude if a husband insults his wife for money. if the latter squanders his money, better explain to her that she cannot keep it anymore as the money he is not rich to indulge her in her whims.
• Pasay, Philippines
5 Oct 19
The common problem there is the husband will not let their wives to work so that they will be the one to take care of their children. Then of course they will be housewives, after that they are going to insult their housewives like they are not making any sense, they are not doing anything, they don't work hard as in taking for granted.
@Alexandoy (65302)
• Cainta, Philippines
5 Oct 19
I agree with the title. If you will look at Fiance it is spelled like Finance.
• Pasay, Philippines
5 Oct 19
you made me laugh and yes you are right it is like Finance too. I've been reading the situations in Peso Sense page and there senders who are having problems with their husbands in terms of money.
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