Determination or Desperation?
By Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
Davao, Philippines
October 16, 2019 6:48am CST
I know I posted this before about a used-to-be-closed friend of mine who betrayed me over guy who happened to be my friend coz she was so jealous of our closeness. She betrayed me coz she doesn’t want me to in their lives when in fact I was the one who help her to get to know my friend and link it to her. Until they become friends and got into relationship of course with my help.
When she went home 2 years ago, she did not let me know about it and too late she was with my guy friend and they lived together already. As for my guy friend, she don’t want me to know about it so they hide it from me. As for me, I’m okay with that but she hides it from me. I feel like I’m a friend with benefit for her. Getting she wants then let go of me just like that is it out of DETERMINATION or DESPERATION?
And so funny, she post in Facebook about how her relationship was wonderful. Me and a friend was laughing last night coz we are the only one who knows about it.
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@cheeeeeball (27)
• Philippines
16 Oct 19
It really is sad to think that there are people who can forget friendship over a new relationship.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60681)
• Perth, Australia
17 Oct 19
@JustBhem She sounds like a very selfish girl! And one who likes to cause drama too!
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Oct 19
Me too, I didn’t believe it she will do that to our friendship for more than 10 years. She was in Dubai, and she had crush on my guy friend, she really likes him and ask me if I can hook her up to him and which I did coz I believe in our friendship.
And at the end, she even talk to some friends and back bite me. When I did not do anything to her but to help her in her crying days. her brokeness and heart break, I was there for her.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60681)
• Perth, Australia
16 Oct 19
@JustBhem Ugh how horrible! I'm so sorry she treated you that way! I really do not like when people do that. Especially people who pretend to be your friend. A true friend would have spoken to you about it.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60681)
• Perth, Australia
17 Oct 19
@JustBhem 
Seriously rude of her! Like I said, not a true friend! I used to be friends with someone who was selfish and used me too. We are not friends anymore. Horrible person she is.
Seriously rude of her! Like I said, not a true friend! I used to be friends with someone who was selfish and used me too. We are not friends anymore. Horrible person she is.1 person likes this
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
17 Oct 19
@VivaLaDani13 She still contact me but I don’t return her messages.
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@TiarasOceanView (70035)
• United States
17 Oct 19
It is good that you know the truth about her.
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@TiarasOceanView (70035)
• United States
18 Oct 19
@JustBhem I did that too before its okay we all do
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Oct 19
@rakski
The guy is our close friend with the boyfriend ever since. We are still friend with him but we seldom see each other now coz of my condition. The girl is in Dubai now as an OFW, she left her son as baby to fulfill her dream wedding someday.
See how ambitious she is, she goes back as an OFW in Dubai to earn and have an expensive wedding when she go back here, and left her 6 months old baby to our guy friend.
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@Alexandoy (65308)
• Cainta, Philippines
16 Oct 19
Trash that kind of friend... delete from your memory.
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@Alexandoy (65308)
• Cainta, Philippines
16 Oct 19
You will find new friends. Forget the old.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Oct 19
@Alexandoy I have a lot now and she doesn’t have friends in us anymore.0
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@Poppylicious (11133)
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16 Oct 19
Surely the boyfriend is partly to blame if he's enabling her behaviour? You're probably better off with neither of them. Let them enjoy their drama and just let them get on with it.
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@Starkinds (32703)
• India
16 Oct 19
for me determination works and it's a longer
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