Should Women Be More Feminine And Men Be More Masculine?

United States
October 17, 2019 2:19pm CST
I'd like to hear from men and women on this topic. Do you think that women should be more feminine and not so much masculine in relationships? Do you believe that that's one of the reasons for divorce or breakups? You know, for years I was very masculine in my relationships and they always fell apart. Why? Because I've learned that there can only be 2 roles in a relationship. The man has to be a man and lead his woman to a safe place and the woman has to be a woman, trust and follow her man to that safe place. Relationships aren't hard or meant to be. We make it hard by not understanding the difference.
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@Starmaiden (9311)
• Canada
17 Oct 19
God is neither male nor female but an equal balance of both. (Father/Mother God) As children of God I believe we should seek an equal balance of both masculine and feminine within ourselves and become less dependent upon the other outside of ourselves.
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• United States
18 Oct 19
I understand that, we both have feminine and masculine energy, but in a relationship a woman should be feminine, that my dear is called Polarity. That's the glue that holds a relationship together with alpha men, unless women are happy to wear the pants with more beta guys, which eventually she'll start resenting him. It's okay to use your masculine energy to handle things, such as work, but in a relationship, women should wear the skirt and men wear the pants.
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@erictsuma (9726)
• Mombasa, Kenya
17 Oct 19
Yes,There should be a difference between a man and a woman. A man is the head of the family
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• United States
18 Oct 19
I agree
• Philippines
19 Oct 19
what happens if the man can no longer work/provide income, say, he became very sick or disabled, eric?
• United States
24 Oct 19
@hereandthere then if you love him, you stick by him, then you have no choice but to step up.
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@hereandthere (45651)
• Philippines
19 Oct 19
when you say "for years i was very masculine in my relationships" in what way?
• United States
24 Oct 19
Trying to control him, lead the relationship. Run things, control the speed of the relationship and commitment. Always arguing and fighting.
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@Ladanger (14582)
• United States
18 Oct 19
I believe that i am feminine. I can't speak for girls who act like a man lol.
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