What is one thing you will never forgive a person for?

I can usually forgive most everything, including cheating. Forgiving doesn't make anyone a fool, it makes fools wiser. I had forgiven my stepfather for all of the physical, mental and emotional abuse he put me through as a child, but what I can't forgive is my mother for ignoring it. Even after I told her about some of things he was doing to me, she turned it around and accused me of being the 'instigator' and a troublemaker. I can't forgive how my mother would allow and watch my stepfather whip my bare backside, (legs, butt and back) with a whipping crop until he drew blood. I can forgive everyone else who has ever done me wrong, but as hard as I try, I can't forgive my mother.

I did not have a cheating husband so I don´t know how I would react. But I think cheating does not only happen with spouses. What that woman did to you was worse than anything. I would not forgive.

There is one thing that my husband did or really refused to do, that I could never forgive him for. Years ago my husband was in the service and was stationed in NC,my mother lived in Florida. My mother had been real sick for a long time and was taken to the Hospital, I recieved a letter through express mail from my grandmother saying they didn't expect my mother to live and she was asking for me. At this time, I did not have a job, car, or know how to drive. I was totelly dependent on my husband. What I can not forgive my husband for is, refusing to take me to see my mother or giving me the money to catch a bus. My mother passed away and I could not be there for her. What really upset me was the fact that after she passed away, he was ready to jump in the car and take me back home. Even though it's been many years ago, if I think about it, it makes me mad and also sad.

I can forgive almost anything, what I can't forgive is if something wrong is done repeatedly even if it's just a small thing. I tend to always forgive a first offense but I become more cautious and put safeguards so it won't happen again.

I wouldn't forgive her either. I didn't forgive my lying cheating ex. For me, I say forget don't forgive.

My ex-husband had supposed friends, 'Bob and Marie.' They were married and had three kids. Bruce would visit their home, but I never fit in because I didn't drink. They had a teenage babysitter, they fixed my husband up with. Eventually, Bruce confessed this affair and asked me to forgive him, he was ashamed! I never mentioned it again, our marriage was excellent for 8 years. Bob and Marie couldn't figure out, why I never accepted them as friends!

Lying.