Seeing Bones (boyfriend) tomorrow

Australia
January 3, 2020 10:38am CST
Finally that day of the week has rolled around. Up early to see Bones. Perhaps I will be able to get him out of the house for a bit. I know his house is his safe place but his doctor keeps saying staying locked in the house avoiding human interaction other than his housemates is really bad for him. I really want to start seeing him more than once a week though.
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• India
3 Jan 20
Is he unwell?
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• Australia
3 Jan 20
He has depression, anxiety, PTSD (possibly cPTSD) and SAD as well as arthritis and a few other disorders so yes he is very unwell.
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@happylife1 (13403)
• Karachi, Pakistan
3 Jan 20
do you love him very much then/?
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• Australia
3 Jan 20
To be honest there are no words used by any member of the human race that can express the love I have for him.
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@happylife1 (13403)
• Karachi, Pakistan
3 Jan 20
@Fa_Maverick are you trying to make him medically fit?
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• Australia
3 Jan 20
@happylife1 helping him to become. I can't make him become well.
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• Mexico
3 Jan 20
I hope he feels better soon, and more comfortable around people so he can get his life back
• Mexico
3 Jan 20
@Fa_Maverick I don't think it's unobtainable, I think he should visit another doctor who treats him with diffferent methods, I believe happiness is real for everybody
• Australia
3 Jan 20
Thankyou. To be honest though his conditions have been basically lifelong. His doctor which he is in the process of leaving has all but given up on him because "with his family history and trauma happiness will be virtually unobtainable"
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• Australia
3 Jan 20
@samysotelo18 "virtually unobtainable" not unobtainable by which he meant not very likely at all but not impossible. He has seen several doctors and been in and out of treatment for 24 years. Some of the treatments have even induced trauma and psychological pain as well as make his triggers worse. I believe he has other traumas that he doesn't remember consciously but are hindering his progress. He is capable of happiness all humans are just usually it doesn't last for more than a day.
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