Do You Find It Difficult To Forgive?

@Wana1234 (1519)
Zambia
January 31, 2020 6:13am CST
We are all grieved in life either by people we know or by those we don't know. Almost daily through the words or actions of others, we feel hurt and that requires forgiveness. However, forgiving at times is conditional to a lot of factors. It would depend on how deep is the grievance, how important is the relationship we have with a grieving person and so on. At times when I'm deeply hurt, I find it difficult to forgive, What about you do you find it difficult to forgive or not?
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@resukill22 (25052)
• Las Pinas City, Philippines
10 Mar 20
Depends on the situation
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@resukill22 (25052)
• Las Pinas City, Philippines
10 Mar 20
@Wana1234 thanks
@Wana1234 (1519)
• Zambia
10 Mar 20
You are right
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@RebeccasFarm (86828)
• United States
31 Jan 20
Yes I do
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@Wana1234 (1519)
• Zambia
31 Jan 20
I understand it's not easy
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• United States
31 Jan 20
@Wana1234 Yes it is mean family member
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@maggs224 (2320)
• Alicante, Spain
25 Apr 20
When I was young I found it hard to forgive especially if I had been deeply hurt and in one case the unforgiveness lasted for years. But now I find it easy to forgive, forgiveness is a gift I give myself. When I have unforgiveness in my heart for others it is me that suffers not the people I am not forgiving. Unforgiveness is a bit like taking poison and expecting the other person to die.
@Hannihar (129553)
• Israel
31 Mar 20
@Wana1234 I find it difficult to forgive if the one that wants it does not really mean it and continues to do mean things and is only saying the words and really does not care.
@Hannihar (129553)
• Israel
2 Apr 20
@Wana1234 Thanks for understanding.
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@Wana1234 (1519)
• Zambia
3 Apr 20
@Hannihar You are welcome.
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@Wana1234 (1519)
• Zambia
1 Apr 20
You are right that way it can be very difficult.
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@ScotMac (1335)
• Edinburgh, Scotland
31 Jan 20
Somethings I don't forgive and I can bear a grudge for a loooooong time!
@Wana1234 (1519)
• Zambia
31 Jan 20
I understand certain things are very hurting
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• Chihuahua, Mexico
9 Feb 20
It's always difficult at first but then with time you can forgive & figure out the situation
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@Wana1234 (1519)
• Zambia
9 Feb 20
I agree with you it feels difficult at first.
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• United States
15 Apr 20
I have been in a few relationships where it was hard to forgive the person who hurt but how I overcame was I prayed wrote letters to each person I did not mail the letters I just wrote them to get my feelings out on paper then through them away and that was the end of those relationships.