What do you do if you know someone who’s a stalker?
By UmiNoor
@UmiNoor (4521)
Malaysia
February 24, 2020 8:09pm CST
I know someone who is very close to me who is a stalker. She does is openly. She talks about the young man as if they are in a real relationship. The young man has rejected her and even wrote her a letter telling her to stop stalking him.
But she ignores all that. She said that the young man is her soulmate and that he’s prevented from wanting to be with her by his family and friends. I find that she’s delusional.
The young man even took out a TRO (temporary restraining order) against her but that didn’t stop her from continuing to stalk him. I pity her because I know she’s a really nice and kind person but why is she like this? I talked to her about this and told her to find someone else? But she insisted that this young man is her soulmate.
How do I help this person?
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@UmiNoor (4521)
• Malaysia
25 Feb 20
I think she’s been seeing a psychologist. I don’t know if it had helped her but apparently not because recently, I heard that she had to spend seven or nine days in prison because she broke the restraining order. But when I contacted her last, the prison experience didn’t much change her feelings for the young man. I’m trying to help her. She’s not a bad person.
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@hereandthere (45628)
• Philippines
25 Feb 20
i think a professional would be able to help her more.
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@crossbones27 (52905)
• Mojave, California
25 Feb 20
Um that's a tough one. My favorite is I have big dogs people never mess with me. t works was telling how a long while back neighbors had a party and homie tries to sneak in, Not sure if was a joke or homie had to much to drink. Did not matter not getting far. Tristan had him three feet in.Not biting, just not your house please leave. I was listening closely and figured probably a prank, nah, did not have to get up and they all were trying to become police men. I knew not so serious. I did call it and told them next day not cool. My sister goes I heard someone got lost. Never heard them so quiet.
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