Can you still be comfortable around people who have betrayed you? / myLot

New Delhi, India

March 27, 2020 2:13am CST

Well, this question actually came to my mind while I was talking to one of my colleague who was once also my dear friend. I have never faced situation like this before, but since we share same work space I am not left with much of the choice, except to accept the fact that he is going to be around and we need to talk regarding work. Now, to be comfortable is a second question...... I wont be that much involved, my body language will be cold and I would just go with professional approach. Have you ever faced something like this? Can you talk to someone who has broken your trust?

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Brigitte Gonzales

@bbghitte (3498)

• Philippines

27 Mar 20

I think I can still talk to that someone but in a civil or professional manner, no strings attached.

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Aanshi Raghava

@Aansh13 (11433)

• New Delhi, India

27 Mar 20

Same Here!!!!

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Brigitte Gonzales

@bbghitte (3498)

• Philippines

27 Mar 20

@cacay1 I think that would be forgiven if that happened just recently but if like decades ago, I think it's best to let go of the hatred. It's just a heavy load to carry

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Aanshi Raghava

@Aansh13 (11433)

• New Delhi, India

27 Mar 20

@bbghitte It's a recent episode....

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Judy Story

@jstory07 (148777)

• Roseburg, Oregon

27 Mar 20

I can talk to that person but not trust that person anymore.

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Aanshi Raghava

@Aansh13 (11433)

• New Delhi, India

27 Mar 20

Yeah!!! True that is.....

rakski

@rakski (156868)

• Philippines

27 Mar 20

for professional reason like work, I can talk to the person but for personal, I would not do that

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Aanshi Raghava

@Aansh13 (11433)

• New Delhi, India

27 Mar 20

Yeah!!! I am bound to talk because of work, else I don't even want to see his face...

Kokil agarwal

@amitkokiladitya (171988)

• Agra, India

27 Mar 20

Yes...just stay professional and speak only what is neede.d

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Kokil agarwal

@amitkokiladitya (171988)

• Agra, India

27 Mar 20

@Aansh13 take care

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Aanshi Raghava

@Aansh13 (11433)

• New Delhi, India

27 Mar 20

@amitkokiladitya You too, dear

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Aanshi Raghava

@Aansh13 (11433)

• New Delhi, India

27 Mar 20

Yes, I do the same....

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@pitsipeahie (5758)

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27 Mar 20

To be comfortable on a personal level, I dont think so. Its hard to trust again someone who has betrayed you. But to deal with them on another level say work, then yes because I have to. I am professional. I wont mix feelings with work. Life just has to go on...

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Aanshi Raghava

@Aansh13 (11433)

• New Delhi, India

27 Mar 20

Wisest advice I am looking for!!!! Thank you so much.....

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