I was told I am an arrogant person... Ouch!

@ellie26 (4139)
Malaysia
May 6, 2020 3:34pm CST
I dont know what came up with this close friend of mine. We usually chat on the phone on a daily basis. Our conversation usually touches on how our day was, sometimes we talked abt health stuff and other time, personal stuff. Today, I was telling her about what my plan was to tackle an issue with a person whom I have a conflict with. She started with her dissaproving my plan and then advising me to be tactful in dealing with that person. As usual, I would start to defend why I should go ahead with my plan when she suddenly said that I was an arrogant person. I dont understand why she said that since she knew me personally for many years but only now she said Im arrogant. Now I began to think maybe I am an arrogant person. Have anyone tell you are an arrogant person? How does it make you feel?
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@mrki444 (15150)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
6 May 20
Many people say same thing to me.
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@ellie26 (4139)
• Malaysia
6 May 20
How do you deal with thar?
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@ellie26 (4139)
• Malaysia
7 May 20
@mrki444 wow... I wished I am able to just ignore but Im a curious person so it difficult for me.
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@mrki444 (15150)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
6 May 20
@ellie26 Great. I even like it.
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• Agra, India
7 May 20
Even if someone says I don't care. I'm the way im.
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@ellie26 (4139)
• Malaysia
7 May 20
I admire your strength.
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• Agra, India
8 May 20
@ellie26 time had made me like this. There is no point in pleasing others
@snowy22315 (169939)
• United States
6 May 20
No one has said to me, but I would be willing to bet people have thought that, and worse!
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@ellie26 (4139)
• Malaysia
6 May 20
It is really sad that some people would harbour such thoughts in them when all it was a pure misunderstood action.
@JohnRoberts (109857)
• Los Angeles, California
6 May 20
Yes, I have been called that. It's a joke. I have nothing to be arrogant about considering my position in life.
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@ellie26 (4139)
• Malaysia
6 May 20
I would love to think it was a joke when she said it to me though.
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@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
6 May 20
I don’t allow others to approve or disapprove of my actions.
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@ellie26 (4139)
• Malaysia
6 May 20
Correct.
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