Little or No Trust (a morning rant, unfortunately!)

@ridingbet (66854)
Philippines
May 27, 2020 9:36pm CST
You get it right! Here is my morning rant, unfortunately, because of my beloved sister opening her communication with me in a negative manner. My son woke and got up earlier than me, and he cooked noodles for his breakfast. The loaf of bread and coconut jam is on the table for the others' breakfast, like me. My son went to the bathroom while I was sitting and watching TV, sipping my coffee. Then my beloved sister got down from her room, prepared herself coffee, and tried to make sandwich for her. Then she noticed the jar of coconut jam's lid was slightly open, and if you hold the jar from the lid, the jar will fall. She asked me if my son made himself sandwich for breakfast. I responded NO, because he cooked noodles. I thought it is fine now. When my son finished his bath and went out of the bathroom going to the room to fix himself, my sister asked him the same question she asked me:" DID YOU PREPARE SANDWICH FOR YOUR BREAKFAST?" I answered for my son because he went to the room immediately, "No, manang, I told you that!" And I added more with my rant, "You really don't trust me, right? You need to hear his answer first-hand because YOU never trust my word" My son answered her NO, TITA, so that should finish it. I said maybe our brother prepared himself sandwich and did not close the lid tightly. Yes, it was my brother who did that, as he replied affirmatively to my sister. Immediately, she said, "I want him to answer me truthfully", so, I told her, "You don't trust anybody here at home." And kept my silence again. When my son went out to drive for school, I told him again our 'discussion' with my beloved sister. He said, "yes, Ma, I observe her to be not trusting even my word". Again, NO TALK NO MISTAKE for me. This should be the last discussion about my sister.
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@rakski (156506)
• Philippines
28 May 20
hello there Ingrid. How are you? It has been a while the last time I saw you here. As for your sister, aw. that is absurd. who will she ever trust?
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
28 May 20
hi there. i do not know whom she should trust. she feels the whole world's problems are on her shoulders. i tell her she is not superwoman.
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@rakski (156506)
• Philippines
29 May 20
@ridingbet other people suffer mor and has more difficulty than whatever she has been undergoing or maybe it is all in her mind
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
28 May 20
I'm sorry your sister doesn't trust what anyone tells her.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
28 May 20
true. right now, she is chatting with somebody in her room. she will open conversation with me again, but i will be mum.
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• Philippines
28 May 20
Maybe you need to have a heart-to-heart talk with your sister.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
28 May 20
we always have. i even gave my piece of toning down since i do not want to have difficult breathing after we have the violent talks. (i have RHD). she is the one who cannot come up with herself as the oldest sibling. i hate to say this, but she acts like a younger sister to me. she is not yet in the dementia stage. she is not KSP. she is simply OCD, domineering type of personality.
@jayanth_77 (7179)
• India
29 May 20
looks like your sister was in a bad mood. something seems to be bothering her else she wouldnt have snapped on your son over silly thing of a jam bottle lid open. she could have closed it without a fuss.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
29 May 20
that should be the case, but she is the Hitler of the house and she wants that everything at home should be done according to her will.
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• India
29 May 20
@ridingbet Every house has a person who is most dominating and wants things to happen as per his or her expectations which often lead to conflict.
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@bbghitte (3498)
• Philippines
28 May 20
Maybe your sister is dealing with some personal problem and the people around her sadly is suffering from her attitude.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
28 May 20
she would often say she has some body ailment like backache, headache, tension headache, too many problems, etc. i always tell her, it is not only she who is sick, and my condition is even worse than hers.
@Lakshman15 (2662)
• India
28 May 20
In each family there is one person those not trust our words..only go for their own.. Hope you manage all..
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
28 May 20
i do
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• India
28 May 20
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@msdivkar (23356)
• India
28 May 20
These are common things in an household to be forgotten.
@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
28 May 20
i don't think this should be forgotten. we have to deal with it.
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@jstory07 (148734)
• Roseburg, Oregon
28 May 20
That is sad your sister does not trust your answer.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
28 May 20
true. so, my no talk, no mistake is keeping me unbothered with her.
@Janet357 (75638)
28 May 20
looks like she is kinda hard to deal with.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
28 May 20
she is. she looks cordial outside the house or with neighbors, but she is that type of personality when she is with us her family.
@Nakitakona (59987)
• Philippines
2 Jun 20
It's nothing. It's not a big thing for me.