Choose to Ignore

@ridingbet (66857)
Philippines
June 5, 2020 1:35am CST
I choose to ignore. There are some things that do not need much importance. I think it would be good to give some things or persons the cold-shoulder treatment. It is one way of not stressing too much. I would not want myself to be in that situation that the heart ailment I have will be complicated again. I would not want to be in that situation that I might be sitting on a chair throughout the day because of some persons giving me the problems. It is so hard to keep myself cool. Everyday, my mantra of NO TALK, NO MISTAKE is always put to test. Yes, I choose to ignore. Even in this site, I will choose to ignore some who challenge my mind and emotions.
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@Alexandoy (65308)
• Cainta, Philippines
5 Jun 20
Choosing to ignore is what I do in social media and in forums. When I don't want to the topic then I skip it.
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@marlina (154165)
• Canada
5 Jun 20
So do I.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
6 Jun 20
right on that. i like to interact with persons who have the same wave length like mine. they can accept jokes, and we speak the same 'language'.
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@Alexandoy (65308)
• Cainta, Philippines
6 Jun 20
@ridingbet to be frank, I am choosy with the topic so I don't react to other discussions that is not interesting to me. Like you, I want to interact with someone on my level. I am very intellectual, waheehee, joke.
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@brokenbee (11090)
• Philippines
5 Jun 20
Ohh, that is the best thing to do Ate... That is also what I am doing right now to someone here at home. LOL It's a very long story.. It happened just this COVID season... Last month, before the announcement that we will no longer be under community quarantine(but changed and changed) LOL...
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@marlina (154165)
• Canada
5 Jun 20
We have to do what is right for ourselves.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
6 Jun 20
aha! do you have problem with your sis-in-law, ading?
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@brokenbee (11090)
• Philippines
5 Jun 20
@marlina Yes..
@bestie (3272)
• Philippines
5 Jun 20
You take care of yourself. We can't really avoid situations that test our patience, no matter how hard we try to avoid stress, stressors keep coming. Relax and pray virtual hugs
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@bestie (3272)
• Philippines
6 Jun 20
@ridingbet health care providers have the best attitude when it comes to the so-called "patience". Are you a doctor? nurse?
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
6 Jun 20
thanks for the hugs. while it is true that our patience is tested when we meet toxic people, i guess for me, i have to extend my patience. i am a pasensyosa. it is expected of me because i am a health care provider.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
8 Jun 20
@bestie i am a nurse/clinical instructor. i was in the clinical/hospital setting from 1981 to 2004, and i only have had 3 workplaces. as long as i am contented with a workplace, i stay there for quite a long time.
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@Shavkat (137238)
• Philippines
5 Jun 20
I also ignore people who keep pestering my peace. I cannot pull myself together to entertain them.
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@Shavkat (137238)
• Philippines
7 Jun 20
@ridingbet This person needs to be ignored. I cannot deal with this person's persona.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
6 Jun 20
right, kabsat. like that one i kept mentioning to you in our PM's.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
8 Jun 20
@Shavkat i am now trying to ignore this person. he is really assuming type. i also blocked ane just now because this person is also feeling like 'on top of the world'.
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@jstory07 (134706)
• Roseburg, Oregon
5 Jun 20
That is the best thing to do ignore.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
6 Jun 20
yes. i like to ignore a couple of mylotters here because they seem to be all- knowing. knowck on wood to whoever thinks they are these persons.
@thelme55 (76481)
• Germany
5 Jun 20
I am doing that, too. I choose to ignore some things and people I can't control. I tried to control myself to react. That is the best way to keep ourselves in trouble.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
6 Jun 20
the MYOB perception is always practiced even in this site.
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@thelme55 (76481)
• Germany
8 Jun 20
@ridingbet that´s true.
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@marlina (154165)
• Canada
5 Jun 20
Good strategy.
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@DianneN (247219)
• United States
7 Jun 20
It is wise to ignore anyone and anything that tends to irritate us in real life or virtual life. Your health and peace of mind should always come first.
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@DianneN (247219)
• United States
8 Jun 20
@ridingbet Keep up the good work. Eventually, it will pay off.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
8 Jun 20
i agree with you. right now, i am having this normally occasional ''violent'' interaction with this person at home- last night again, but i am already in my post-graduate studies of MYOB knowledge. i cannot afford to be sick; hence, ignore ignore, ignore
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• Agra, India
5 Jun 20
Trust me...when I learned this art my life became extremely better.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
6 Jun 20
i agree. isn't it you are a doctor? i remember before we had interactions. am i right?
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
8 Jun 20
@amitkokiladitya my memory recall is still highly functional therefore.
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• Agra, India
6 Jun 20
@ridingbet yes...I'm a dental surgeon
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• Philippines
5 Jun 20
Learn the art of "dedma"
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
6 Jun 20
i so agree with you. practicing dedma is already an art and a skill that not everybody can do.
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@Aansh13 (11251)
• New Delhi, India
5 Jun 20
I feel you... and prefer doing the same...
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
6 Jun 20
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@erictsuma (9726)
• Mombasa, Kenya
5 Jun 20
Me too
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@LowRiderX (22907)
• Serbia
8 Jun 20
I agree, I avoid some and I will just start some ..
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@Mnridwan (191)
• Indonesia
6 Jun 20
Yes, sometimes we have to choose to ignore. Ignoring the some things that do not need much importance and focus on ourselves
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
8 Jun 20
i think it is also an attitude to perceive what makes us like something or somebody; choosing to ignore is free will already, right?
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@Mnridwan (191)
• Indonesia
9 Jun 20
@ridingbet yes, that's right
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@Lakshman15 (2662)
• India
5 Jun 20
It depends in your thinking way,I give my emotions which I pike only font go for unnecessary things..
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