Relationship
@therealanthony (483)
Caracas, Venezuela
June 10, 2020 4:46pm CST
Is it normal to reach the age of 25 and have no partner? I only comment because I am short of reaching 25 and I have no girlfriend or anyone who can be, I have been like this all my life and it is not something that makes me despair, my mom always asks for some girl but I am focused on working, I graduated recently and I want to get my things for my effort, and I really do not feel ready to have a relationship with a girl, I must have my own financial stability to think about it. However, I feel a little bad because I have noticed girls who, in addition to being beautiful, are intelligent and interesting, and I have missed opportunities due to being focused on my projects.
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@askme123 (6150)
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10 Jun 20
@therealanthony you look older than 25 You probable need to start looking around and start dating but nothing too deep until you are ready.
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@therealanthony (483)
• Caracas, Venezuela
10 Jun 20
@askme123 Hehe, I think I look old because of the beard, when I shave I look like I'm 18
@therealanthony (483)
• Caracas, Venezuela
10 Jun 20
Yes, I have always thought so, when the time is right I will
@therealanthony (483)
• Caracas, Venezuela
10 Jun 20
I think so, then my sister is asking me for a nephew hahaha
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@SHOHANA (16094)
• Bangladesh
10 Jun 20
@therealanthony asking for nephew? Are you married?
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@therealanthony (483)
• Caracas, Venezuela
10 Jun 20
Oh, great, It's nice to hear it :)
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@therealanthony (483)
• Caracas, Venezuela
11 Jun 20
Thank you, I think about it because I notice how other people look for relationships and even children at an early age.
@jayanth_77 (7180)
• India
11 Jun 20
Being focused on your goal and getting a stable job is important. You can make girl friend anytime once you are financially secure.
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@therealanthony (483)
• Caracas, Venezuela
11 Jun 20
That's how I thought about it since I was a teenager, that's my vision.
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@Shauibee (610)
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11 Jun 20
Yes it is totally normal. Don't get pressured. If you are not yet ready, don't go into a relationship. You must be whole first before to be with someone. It is not true as the romantic movie line "You complete me."
Also, you are correct you must also be financially stable just in case you want to go into a more serious relationship.
Enjoy your life while you are still single.
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@Shauibee (610)
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12 Jun 20
@therealanthony Thank you. 
Make sure your Love Tank is full. It is because you cannot give what you don't have.
Make sure your Love Tank is full. It is because you cannot give what you don't have.1 person likes this
@therealanthony (483)
• Caracas, Venezuela
12 Jun 20
@Shauibee Thank you, that's great point.
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@therealanthony (483)
• Caracas, Venezuela
11 Jun 20
It is an excellent comment, very wise, we must first love ourselves to share that love with another person.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60355)
• Perth, Australia
28 Feb 22
@therealanthony Doing whatever you want to do for your life is 1000% normal. When you feel you are ready, then you can do whatever you need to do to pursue a relationship. I just turned 31 on the 13th of February and I am not in a relationship. Honestly I sometimes do get sad about it because I hate it how people my age or younger are in lovely relationships and I am wondering when it's my turn. I've been in awful relationships before and hoping I can be in an amazing relationship one day.
But really, we shouldn't be thinking about what is a "normal age" or appropriate time to do this or do that. We should do things when we are ready or when we feel the time is right for us.
@Hannihar (129470)
• Israel
28 Feb 22
By Nelson Hernandez
@therealanthony
There is nothing wrong with you. You sound very mature and know yourself better than anyone. You said you are not ready and want to be financially secure when you are in a relationship iwhat a female. Not all by the age of 25 want a relationship. You are not ready. You have to listen to you and not anyone else and not let anyone force you into something you are not ready for.
@Ucahalimah (101)
• Bandar Lampung, Indonesia
11 Jun 20
Relationship isn't about normal or not. It is just about timing. When you are ready and when the time also ready. You will get the partner. No worry.
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@Ucahalimah (101)
• Bandar Lampung, Indonesia
28 Feb 22
@therealanthony u will never know when u’re ready if u’re not trying dude
@therealanthony (483)
• Caracas, Venezuela
11 Jun 20
Exactly, I think that the relationship is somewhat difficult, maybe beautiful but not easy, I will do it when I'm ready
