Should we have to remember them?
July 3, 2020 10:17am CST
Hello to All, There are some people who like to ask things because they need of it but once they got that things they not return it until we tell them 4-5 times. During this pandemic i gave my spare charger to a person who need it because he was stuck at home and cant go to his main home. He told me for few days but now it's 3 month passed but still not returning it. People ask things because they need it but they not interested to return even we need them badly. Same thing happens when we landed money as people not interested to return. I don't like this kind of people and not give again next time anything even he need it badly or his work stopped. I don't like who cant stay on their promises and if they have problem they can tell but wait for us to tell them 3-4 times.
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3 Jul 20
Absolutely! I can completely understand how you're feeling because I get pissed off too with such people. Earlier I used to hesitate to ask or remind them. But then I realized I'm not doing anything wrong if I do so! It's they who needs to feel shame and not me. First time I felt uncomfortable thinking what if they feel offended and misunderstand me or backbite about me. But trust me, nothing like that happens!! So now I just directly ask them to return my stuff if I feel a considerable time has passed already.
3 Jul 20
Generally we can understand someone has problems and we gave because they need but what we do if we need that thing and its not with us. We purchase things for our own use but if its not useful then what we do. I don't like to remind them but when patience over, i need to tell them and make my mind that i will not return whatever trouble he has. We give things because we thought they will return but not doing anything untill we remind them.
9 Jul 20
@birjudanak I think it is very inconsiderate that if you lend someone money or things that they should either pay it back or give something back to you and not keep it. There are those that will pay the money back or return things to you and others forget or just do not care.
9 Jul 20
Yes in money we will get to see people heart and image that what kind of it. When they want they keep lying against us but when time comes to pay then avoid us. Mostly money create problem but when things are small like mobile charger we cant strightly say no.
4 Jul 20
I don't like that kind of person too. They want to borrow something,after giving them they don't know how to return.If you ask them then they have the guts to get angry, or sometimes they will make many excuses.Hu!what mean thinking this people are.So next time better not to entertain such people.Ignore,they will just give head ache.haha.
4 Jul 20
Yes, you are right and when we ask them to return then they said it's spare and why you need it as let me use. They said they will return in 2 days but not return even after 2 months. when they live far than also not pick up calls because they know why we called. such mean people.