Blamed for no reason
@amitkokiladitya (171936)
Agra, India
July 11, 2020 9:49pm CST
Yesterday I came to know that a relative of mine was talking ill about me behind my back and was blaming me for the mess that was occuring in her life .
I was shocked to know this. The person has no dignity and can go down to any limits. So there was no point in clarifications. I did not want to mess up things further.
At present I think it is better to remain quiet and leave everything upon time and karma.
What do you think about this? Have you faced such a thing in your life?
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@amitkokiladitya (171936)
• Agra, India
12 Jul 20
Do you think this is the correct way?
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@amitkokiladitya (171936)
• Agra, India
12 Jul 20
@sophie09 yes..... So better acting sensibly
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@sophie09 (34246)
• Indonesia
12 Jul 20
@amitkokiladitya if we fight back i think thats gonna make it worse. Anyway it has happened right
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@birjudanak (14319)
• India
12 Jul 20
Let them to do what they want. If you not react and no reply then they will burn from inside. If things certainly go beyond limit then just cut relation if they cross their limit.
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@amitkokiladitya (171936)
• Agra, India
12 Jul 20
Ohk...that is best way. There is no point in throwing a stone in the mud.
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@birjudanak (14319)
• India
12 Jul 20
@amitkokiladitya Yes exactly, they wants you reply and when you not do it then they become more angry and hurt themselves.
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@amitkokiladitya (171936)
• Agra, India
12 Jul 20
@birjudanak ohk...so I should be making silence as my biggest weapon
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@marguicha (215492)
• Chile
12 Jul 20
Everyone has her own answer. For me, the best is to stay away from toxic people.
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@amitkokiladitya (171936)
• Agra, India
12 Jul 20
Yes...that is why I think it is better to ignore...isn't it.
@amitkokiladitya (171936)
• Agra, India
12 Jul 20
You mean to say ignoring works the best in this case.
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@msdivkar (23359)
• India
12 Jul 20
@amitkokiladitya Not the work but bad part of incident that has happened to you and is troubling you.
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@amitkokiladitya (171936)
• Agra, India
12 Jul 20
@msdivkar yes... this is so true..and I take so long to step out of it.
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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104632)
• United States
15 Jul 20
There is no pleasing everyone. I think there is atleast one person in a family that can not take blame upon themselves and must blame others. I think you did the right thing by ignoring it.
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@amitkokiladitya (171936)
• Agra, India
12 Jul 20
Yes..she is known for this earlier also
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@Adie04 (17360)
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12 Jul 20
@amitkokiladitya For me, enough dealing with a drama queen once. I don't need another drama queen to deal with. It's tiring 
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@amitkokiladitya (171936)
• Agra, India
13 Jul 20
@Adie04 yes .true..it definitely is. So how are your terms now with your drama queen
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
12 Jul 20
AS long as you know that you have done nothing wrong then it's best to stay quiet about it. The truth will always come out.
I used to have a friend whom I thought was my really good friend until she started back biting me and spreading news destroying my reputation. I stayed quiet. In the end, her friends whom she talked to about me, came to me and apologize for misjudging me and even told me everything.
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@amitkokiladitya (171936)
• Agra, India
12 Jul 20
Yes .. that is what I expect to happen. I strongly believe in karma
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
12 Jul 20
Ignore not unless it already goes over the limit that it's breaking some of your laws then consider filing legal action
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@amitkokiladitya (171936)
• Agra, India
12 Jul 20
Ohk....that appears what I'm doing is perfectly fine.
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@psanasangma (5884)
• India
12 Jul 20
Sometimes it's better to be silent rather than giving clarification..
it is exhausting and time wasting ..
I believe you are doing what you are suppose to be doing..
be happy and stay safe and healthy
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@freelancermariagrace (27219)
• Philippines
12 Jul 20
Just ignore her, Kokil. Maybe she just needs attention
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@Butterfingers (66585)
• India
15 Jul 20
Never happened. Sorry about it. Better to avoid
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@amitkokiladitya (171936)
• Agra, India
15 Jul 20
Yes ...better to stay away from the mess and the dirt
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@amitkokiladitya (171936)
• Agra, India
12 Jul 20
Yes..I will try to handle it in this way itself. Thanks for the advice
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