Hold the grudge or forgive and move on
@amitkokiladitya (171936)
Agra, India
9 responses
@amitkokiladitya (171936)
• Agra, India
13 Jul 20
Yes..true.
Actually it is hurting me a lot.
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@amitkokiladitya (171936)
• Agra, India
13 Jul 20
@JohnKu that is so good . I will remember this and go ahead in my life
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@yoalldudes (35040)
• Philippines
13 Jul 20
I hold a grudge especially when they cause permanent damage to my life.
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@yoalldudes (35040)
• Philippines
14 Jul 20
@amitkokiladitya I think of other thoughts, pleasant thoughts.
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@amitkokiladitya (171936)
• Agra, India
13 Jul 20
Yes ..I know.. but no matter how hard I try my mind and heart are still stuck up there.
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@Teekaaa (11580)
• India
13 Jul 20
@amitkokiladitya if you feel like that, you may try to divert yourself on some other things like reading books, TV,...like that. what you say! Will it work?
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@amitkokiladitya (171936)
• Agra, India
13 Jul 20
@Teekaaa tried all..but somewhere in the background things are running. I always take long to snap out of things
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@Michellekidwell (29260)
• Sonora, California
13 Jul 20
Holding a grudge can mean more harm than good to you, but that doesn’t mean you sit around taking the verbal, or any other form of abuse either.
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@amitkokiladitya (171936)
• Agra, India
13 Jul 20
Yes...I know what you mean . I should be fighting for my rights but while maintaining my dignity and sanity
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@amitkokiladitya (171936)
• Agra, India
14 Jul 20
@Michellekidwell I will follow your words. Thanks for the advice
@Michellekidwell (29260)
• Sonora, California
13 Jul 20
@amitkokiladitya Yes, exactly!
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@amitkokiladitya (171936)
• Agra, India
15 Jul 20
Yes .. that is what I'm also trying to do
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@amitkokiladitya (171936)
• Agra, India
15 Jul 20
@Butterfingers thanks .you are a good supporter.
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@amitkokiladitya (171936)
• Agra, India
13 Jul 20
Yes...now even I have left everything on karma.
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@birjudanak (14319)
• India
13 Jul 20
it's a simple thing that you cant do two things together. For you. if that person is important then forget your pain and if your pain is important then forget a person.
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@birjudanak (14319)
• India
13 Jul 20
@amitkokiladitya This is all i learn from my motivational guru whose link i already shared.
@amitkokiladitya (171936)
• Agra, India
13 Jul 20
Wow... another such a good outlook. I adore you
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@freelancermariagrace (27219)
• Philippines
13 Jul 20
I tend to hold a grudge at times.
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@amitkokiladitya (171936)
• Agra, India
13 Jul 20
Me too..but now I'm hurting myself.
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@JimBo452020 (42629)
• United Kingdom
13 Jul 20
Well holding grudges is pointless.
But me, nah, dont really forgive.
Or forget
I just get on with life and never ever give the person concerned another thought
Why waste time even thinking about them, let alone hold a grudge.
I wouldnt piss on someone like that to put the flames out if they were on fire.
But I would not hold a grudge.
They become NON PEOPLE.
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@amitkokiladitya (171936)
• Agra, India
13 Jul 20
So well said.. thanks for the advice my friend
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