Raising children

By Hayat Adelli

Casablanca, Morocco

July 15, 2020 3:51pm CST

Most of Time when we dispute me and my husband because of our different way of thinking of how to raise the children. Does it happen to you also and how do you solve things?

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@Fa_Maverick (9458)

• Australia

16 Jul 20

Uh I dont have children but I guess it would be compromise

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@Fa_Maverick (9458)

• Australia

16 Jul 20

@life85 I wouldnt want to have children because I feel like I would be too strict like my mother but she was so strict on occasion it was bad for my mental health... I dont want to do that

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• Casablanca, Morocco

18 Jul 20

@Fa_Maverick don't let this prevent you from having children, just try not to be too strict and alwyas there should be discussion with children even if they are young

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• Casablanca, Morocco

16 Jul 20

Yes it is

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@iniaku (2157)

• Indonesia

17 Jul 20

i think better for a husband and wife talk first and decide the house rule. sharing and accepted what should and shouldnt do when raising their kids.

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@iniaku (2157)

• Indonesia

18 Jul 20

@life85 then when wife/husband didnt agree on something, just talk privately (not in front of their kids) and find the best solution

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• Casablanca, Morocco

18 Jul 20

@iniaku yes better not to talk about these issues at the presence of children

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• Casablanca, Morocco

17 Jul 20

Yes you're right? but it happens that there are unpredictable things that you don't agree on before

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@snowy22315 (169643)

• United States

15 Jul 20

I think it happens alot. My son is grown now.

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• Casablanca, Morocco

15 Jul 20

So no more dispute

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@snowy22315 (169643)

• United States

15 Jul 20

@life85 not really, good luck though. I think it is a common problem.

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• Casablanca, Morocco

15 Jul 20

@snowy22315 thanks

@marlina (154166)

• Canada

18 Jul 20

My husband and I were on the same page when raising our 2 sons,

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• Casablanca, Morocco

18 Jul 20

Yes for my case a son and daughter

@DianneN (246334)

• United States

16 Jul 20

It's important to have the same values before having kids, but men and women have different ideas. I was more loving and my husband was more strict. They are grown up now and turned out just fine.

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@DianneN (246334)

• United States

16 Jul 20

@life85 That's very true.

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• Casablanca, Morocco

16 Jul 20

Yes, because we are raised differently, we sée things different.

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@nela13 (55702)

• Portugal

17 Jul 20

I and my husband have the same ideas about raising our children, so, so far so good!

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@nela13 (55702)

• Portugal

17 Jul 20

@life85 Thank God

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• Casablanca, Morocco

17 Jul 20

Yes really good so no problems concerning this point

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• Casablanca, Morocco

17 Jul 20

@nela13 good wish you all the happiness with your family

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@toniganzon (72285)

• Philippines

15 Jul 20

Yes it happens to me too. We just sleep it out and be fine the next day. We do think about each other's opinion and who was right or wrong.

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• Casablanca, Morocco

16 Jul 20

Here the problem is that everyone is convinced that he is thé one who is right, but as you said, we just return to normal After a while and pour dispute stop at that point

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@psanasangma (5884)

• India

16 Jul 20

I am not married person, I think it is normal to dispute between couples..

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• Casablanca, Morocco

16 Jul 20

Yes you are right, it's common

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@resukill22 (25052)

• Las Pinas City, Philippines

17 Jul 20

It doesnt matter how you treat your son important you both love and want to your children be good in the future

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• Casablanca, Morocco

17 Jul 20

Yes right, thanks for your comment

@cperry2 (5608)

• Newport, Oregon

16 Jul 20

Raising children was always a matter of contention between me and my wife. Mostly we would discuss things (out of earshot of the kids) so that we could present a united front when we disciplined or made decisions that affected them or the kids' desires. When we were still very young, we would often argue about the kids, but as we aged and as the kids aged, we mellowed out and things were a lot calmer. Ours are grown and have families of their own now. They turned out pretty good.

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• Casablanca, Morocco

16 Jul 20

Good to hear your expérience, thanks for sharing

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@aureategloom (8344)

• Bosnia And Herzegovina

16 Jul 20

i don't have kids, but i already talked about raising them with my boyfriend

we agreed that it's going to be my way

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• Casablanca, Morocco

16 Jul 20

Good if you agreed before

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@Butterfingers (66585)

• India

16 Jul 20

Am not married but everyone have different way to look at the things differently

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• Casablanca, Morocco

16 Jul 20

Yes this is the point

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@JimBo452020 (42629)

• United Kingdom

15 Jul 20

Happens to all parents at some point. Its actually quite a good thing. Means both of you are inputting,

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• Casablanca, Morocco

15 Jul 20

Yes especially if they are still young

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Muhammad Nuh Panjaitan

• Medan, Indonesia

16 Jul 20

It happens to all parents.

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• Casablanca, Morocco

16 Jul 20

Yes this is what I see from all the responses

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@thelme55 (76477)

• Germany

15 Jul 20

It happens to many couples with children.

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• Casablanca, Morocco

15 Jul 20

Yes I think so

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