Dealing With Frustration

picture's not mine
July 17, 2020 11:47pm CST
Have you ever been frustrated in something that cannot be controlled? That is exactly what I am undergoing right now. Dealing with a family member whom cannot show any sense of responsibility, someone who only counts his doings, and not even looking into the efforts of the other members... It's frustrating and disappointing with a slight of sadness, knowing that it is in the family that troubles me. Any advice and recommendations would be very grate
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• Agra, India
18 Jul 20
Haha...I deal with one such person daily...and trust yo ignore and avoid the person always works the best for me
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18 Jul 20
Yes, ignoring might be the best option for now. A moment of silence won't harm anyway...
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• Agra, India
18 Jul 20
@Nailayf10 trust me. Being silent and not bothering at all is the one and the only way of living a peaceful life
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18 Jul 20
@amitkokiladitya Yes, I guess you're right. thanks...
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• Bosnia And Herzegovina
19 Jul 20
i try not to worry about the things i can do nothing about. is it a member of your close family or someone else?
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• Bosnia And Herzegovina
19 Jul 20
@Nailayf10 for me, close family are my parents, my brother and grandma and grandpa. i hope it gets better.
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19 Jul 20
A member of a close family, like very close... I just want to be silent for now.
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19 Jul 20
@aureategloom yes i hope so too...
@sublime03 (2339)
• Philippines
18 Jul 20
Of course we all experience being frustrated with whatever reason it maybe. And maybe at the moment it is best for you to relax and tlar it easy. You have to take the time to think of the situation and figure out what is your next move. If it is a family member just remember that family is family. No matter how big the issue is, you’ll find a way to be the bigger person and show kindness despite it all. It is easy to s ay but hard to do, I know. But we ought to show kindness to family because they are all we got in this lifetime.
@MALUSE (69409)
• Germany
18 Jul 20
I've found a short term solution.
I‘m not known for sudden outbreaks of temperament. Everybody who knows me personally can tell you that. Yet, the other day I was overwhelmed by one. I’m...
@Hannihar (129609)
• Israel
19 Jul 20
@Nailayf10 I am sorry I am not good with family issues. I can understand that picture you put here. I feel that way at times. I have things to deal with and I keep ending up back at the start so decided to just do whatever I can and I relaxed. It only half solved the problem, but, that is the best I can do. I have no energy to keep trying and not getting anywhere so decided whatever I can do I will do.
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@Hannihar (129609)
• Israel
20 Jul 20
@Nailayf10 Thank you so much.
19 Jul 20
Yes, very well said.
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• India
18 Jul 20
I keep calm and drink cold water. I take responsibilty for what I do. That keeps me on track.
18 Jul 20
yes, that would do too
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@Lavanya15 (12888)
• Chennai, India
18 Jul 20
Each day I face like those experiences in my daily life. Just spend hear you get good relaxation my friend.