Better Living Alone

@SHOHANA (16094)
Bangladesh
July 28, 2020 12:05pm CST
Which one you’ll prefer to have? A big family with lots of toxic family members? Or living alone in a island? We human born to be free right? But when you are surrounded by toxic people how you’ll feel at that time. Nothing to hide once I had a family with toxic people where everyday I need to feel like a waste. No value of compromise, sacrifice and contribution. No appreciation but you can feel down everyday for your existence in this earth. Time always change to positive or negative. Finally spending some quality time alone where no one to underestimate me, ditch me and hit me. Only peace remaining. If living alone give you a better and painless life its really very good to stay alone. Its true we need family, we need Companions but they should be our healer not the hitter, that's all I believe. My childhood spoiled for having toxic people around, I was so scared and unhappy. Now I won't allow myself for those toxic relationship that only can hurt. I prefer to living alone in Island instead having toxic people around as so called family. Thanks for reading Stay blessed all.
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@akalinus (40601)
• United States
28 Jul 20
Hi, I have lived with toxic people. I now live alone. I thought I would like living alone on an island but since self-isolating, I miss people too much. It is very lonely after a while.
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@SHOHANA (16094)
• Bangladesh
28 Jul 20
Yes you are right, if we find people can understand me, I can think of him
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@akalinus (40601)
• United States
30 Jul 20
@SHOHANA I'm so sorry that you had to go through that. It is better to live alone if you can see friends but that is pretty much on hold with this virus.
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@SHOHANA (16094)
• Bangladesh
30 Jul 20
@akalinus well living alone is better not only because of virus attack but also to live peacefully. Peace of mind is important
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@nela13 (55734)
• Portugal
28 Jul 20
I grow up in a big family and thank God i had never toxic people in my family.
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@SHOHANA (16094)
• Bangladesh
28 Jul 20
You are lucky my friend I wish no.one experience having toxic relationship with them
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@SHOHANA (16094)
• Bangladesh
30 Jul 20
@yesterdayis yes I think so, must be a great family
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@nela13 (55734)
• Portugal
28 Jul 20
@SHOHANA yes, that would be the ideal situation.
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@marlina (154165)
• Canada
28 Jul 20
It must terrible to have to live with toxic people, never experienced it myself, but I can imagine how bad it must be,
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@SHOHANA (16094)
• Bangladesh
28 Jul 20
Yes having toxic people around is terrible, I'm glad that I can.live alone now and it seems such a blessing.
@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
28 Jul 20
That sounds awful for you, fortunately I've never had nasty people around me.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
29 Jul 20
@SHOHANA Thanks but I'm a gal
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@SHOHANA (16094)
• Bangladesh
29 Jul 20
@jaboUK ha ha okay you are a lucky girl, sorry for my misunderstanding
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@SHOHANA (16094)
• Bangladesh
28 Jul 20
Yes you are really a lucky guy. Having good people around is a blessing.
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@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
29 Jul 20
Your decision is great to better live alone. There are also many of us at home and some have toxic attitude, but I just ignore and keep myself busy. I don't talk to toxic family member to avoid heartaches.
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@SHOHANA (16094)
• Bangladesh
29 Jul 20
I have the same concern dear, I don’t want to hurt myself
@DianneN (247191)
• United States
28 Jul 20
I never experienced living in a toxic family. If I did, I guess I would prefer to live on my own.
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@SHOHANA (16094)
• Bangladesh
28 Jul 20
You are also lucky here that you never had toxic people around you to make you feel down everyday , every moment
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@DianneN (247191)
• United States
28 Jul 20
@SHOHANA I'm lucky in real life. Here, not so much.
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@SHOHANA (16094)
• Bangladesh
30 Jul 20
@DianneN "here" means? You are lucky and I'm happy for you
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@Shiva49 (26220)
• Singapore
29 Jul 20
There are always the few out to create discord within a family. I just tolerate them and move on. Thankfully, the vast majority are understanding and accepting. I think you should draw a line - thus far and no more and stand by your principles - siva
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@SHOHANA (16094)
• Bangladesh
29 Jul 20
Yes you are right, I should draw a line and try to avoid toxic people around me
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@Sambriel (2243)
28 Jul 20
Only you have the power to choose the people you want around you .it is better to be alone on an island than to be around people that would emotionally train you. Stay safe and stay blessed!
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@SHOHANA (16094)
• Bangladesh
28 Jul 20
Thank you so much for your precious opinion. You too stay bl
@LindaOHio (157044)
• United States
28 Jul 20
I hate living alone and would have to put up with the toxic people.
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@SHOHANA (16094)
• Bangladesh
28 Jul 20
If you have good companions then you’ve no need to live alone, I prefer to live alone only if toxic people are around to make me feel.down.
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@Glory19 (98)
29 Jul 20
I do not like toxic people also but do not lose hope in the human race, there are still lots of nice people out there.
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@SHOHANA (16094)
• Bangladesh
29 Jul 20
Yes.agree on that, uou get me right
@JohnKu (2552)
28 Jul 20
I think I prefer living alone, but that's just me.
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@SHOHANA (16094)
• Bangladesh
28 Jul 20
Yes I prefer the same, toxic people destroy life
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@SHOHANA (16094)
• Bangladesh
30 Jul 20
@JohnKu yes you are right but having such caring people in life is a matter of luck
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@JohnKu (2552)
29 Jul 20
@SHOHANA Not all people are toxic though. We just need to find those who care.
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@life85 (464)
• Casablanca, Morocco
29 Jul 20
I understand you as here too there are people like that, but just ignore them and their point of views
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@SHOHANA (16094)
• Bangladesh
29 Jul 20
Yes there are many people in this world who hurts you by their words and activities and we consider them toxic people around us. I just try to ignore but sometimes ignoring is not enough.
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@SHOHANA (16094)
• Bangladesh
30 Jul 20
@life85 when we hide it, it become more painful and we decide to be apart. We human being would love to be there where we get true love, attention and care.
@life85 (464)
• Casablanca, Morocco
30 Jul 20
@SHOHANA yes you're right, you get hurted even if we don't show it
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@MmaiLuv (959)
• Indonesia
2 Feb 21
Sorry to hear that,i think if u have toxic family u must stay away from them and go to better place, i had never toxic people in my family