He will tell you the truth
By Xenia Berg
@Coconutik (12)
August 1, 2020 10:04am CST
Get the person to tell you more. They say that silence is gold, but when it comes to making a person reveal all his cards, it's like drawing a lucky ticket. If you are talking to a person and do not get the deep, thoughtful answers you were hoping for, try to be silent while the other person speaks, ask a question and shut up, let the person answer. This makes the other person more likely to speak up, filling the silence and more likely to say more than if you intervened.
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@Lavanya15 (12888)
• Chennai, India
1 Aug 20
Each person are different some talk more, some are very silent lol. It depends in their character. Who speaks more, they don't speak truth, and not also listen other words too.
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@Coconutik (12)
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1 Aug 20
The bottom line is that if you want to hear the truth, you need to let the person speak out and ask the question directly. If he starts lying to you, he will have pauses (in his head he will think of what to say). But person don't need to invent the truth.
And look at the statistics on the silent ones)) Still waters run deep.LOL!
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@psanasangma (5884)
• India
3 Aug 20
I agree with you, because person need a listener. there are many reason why many people remain silent
@Coconutik (12)
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1 Aug 20
We can say the same about those who speak little, such people can also tell lies.
When the monologue ends and the person receives a direct question. Small chance that he will lie.
@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
1 Aug 20
@Coconutik A good liar can always lie with an innocent face. Don't assume that you will always detect a lie. If you think so, you're under an illusion.
@Fa_Maverick (9458)
• Australia
3 Aug 20
Yeah being around people that just kind of talk to fill the silence can be off putting... Or if they talk over the top of you like dude you asked me a question let me answer yeh?
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@Coconutik (12)
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1 Aug 20
Yes, such people also exist. You need to either directly say that he talk a lot or show dissatisfaction with your physiognomy.
