When the parents involving their kids problem

Semarang, Indonesia
August 9, 2020 3:58am CST
I am a teacher. My students are kids they are quarelling oftenly. And the unique, today is quarelling, the next day they already forgetting all. Playing ang laughing together without any revenge. But the story will different, if their parents are involved. The problem will bigger. The parents will blame each others and influencing the kids to keep continue the hostility. The funny is, although the kids already forgiving, the parents still keep the hostility continously. Not every parents like that,but mostly.
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@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
9 Aug 20
I was a teacher for forty years. I always said to my colleagues that my dream was to teach orphans. I said that jokingly, of course, but parents can really be a pest. I had to remind them occasionally that I had studied to be a teacher and knew what I was doing and did not need their advice.
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@marlina (154165)
• Canada
9 Aug 20
I can see some parents going overboard for sure
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• Semarang, Indonesia
9 Aug 20
Yes... @MALUSE, i agree with it. We should make the parents understand that we are as a teacher off course will doing fairly when finishing our student's problem, right?.thanks a lot for dropping by
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• Semarang, Indonesia
10 Aug 20
@marlina yes, some do that
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• Agra, India
9 Aug 20
That is what is the difference between adult and child
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• Agra, India
10 Aug 20
@HannahKusKus yes ...the pure heart gradually gets all tainted and rotten
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• Semarang, Indonesia
10 Aug 20
@amitkokiladitya so sad for that... isnt it. Is already lunch at there kokil?
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• Semarang, Indonesia
10 Aug 20
Yes... kokil, child is a pure and kindhearted. But adult is have many purpose
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@Alexandoy (65308)
• Cainta, Philippines
9 Aug 20
That is common for parents to get involved when their child is quarreling with a classmate.
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@Alexandoy (65308)
• Cainta, Philippines
10 Aug 20
@HannahKusKus this reminds us of our younger days for sure.
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• Semarang, Indonesia
10 Aug 20
@Alexandoy haha.. yes.. childhood is always be missed...
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• Semarang, Indonesia
10 Aug 20
Yes.. it is a kids world. Will be good memory
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@DianneN (247103)
• United States
10 Aug 20
It's awful when parents get involved. Kids will learn to settle their own disagreements and quickly all by themselves.
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@DianneN (247103)
• United States
11 Aug 20
@HannahKusKus Exactly!
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• Semarang, Indonesia
11 Aug 20
Yes... @DianneN, i absolutely agree with you. The parents should let their kids be settle their own. If the parents believing their kids, the kids will always be taught. Thanks a lot for dropping by
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• Semarang, Indonesia
12 Aug 20
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@just4him (306724)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
11 Aug 20
It's a shame the parents think they need to involve themselves in their children's lives like that.
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@just4him (306724)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
13 Aug 20
@HannahKusKus You're welcome. It's @just4him
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• Semarang, Indonesia
12 Aug 20
Yes.. @Valerie J. Routhieaux, it is a shame. But most of parents do not realize that their attitude makes the children becomes spoiled, not indendent, and blaming others easily. Thanks so much for dropping by, @Valerie J. Routhieaux
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• Semarang, Indonesia
14 Aug 20
@just4him oh i beg your pardon, that's what i mean. The comment is refer to you @just4him . I want to write your name but the blue link is refer to someone which has the same name
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@iniaku (2157)
• Indonesia
9 Aug 20
hi long time no see... parents mostly keep the revenge feeling in heart. they usually hard to forgive then their kids. sometimes their mouth say i forgive you, but not coming from their heart.
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@iniaku (2157)
• Indonesia
10 Aug 20
@HannahKusKus hahaha yes. this few weeks feel so lazy to open myLot. did you ever feel the same?
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• Semarang, Indonesia
10 Aug 20
@iniaku yes.. sometimes i feel the same. Especially when it already long time off. Just like when we did our thesis.. right? . Btw.. do you still watching any K drama?
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• Semarang, Indonesia
10 Aug 20
Hi... yes.. already just like for years... . I still on off for running this linzy... still adjust with my online teaching time. But i always missing you. Yes, adult not pure anymore. We should learn from the kids. Thanks a lot for dropping by
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@psanasangma (5884)
• India
10 Aug 20
Adult vs children... I think among adult it remains because of ego but children are innocent and every action is for a few moments..unless very serious things occurred to them
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• Semarang, Indonesia
11 Aug 20
Yes.. @psanasangma, i absolutely agree with it. Adult is have a big ego. The kids is still pure, will forgiving any fault. Thanks a lot for dropping by
@nawala123 (20852)
• Indonesia
10 Aug 20
i think it common problem but when people do it deliberately, and that is the worst thing ever in pareting
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• Semarang, Indonesia
10 Aug 20
Yes... nawala. Quarelling is kids world.. it make them be tought.
@Miss_Leafy (4296)
• Colombia
9 Aug 20
That's kids. They are innocent, not like adult people. What in their mind is just playing for fun.
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• Colombia
10 Aug 20
@HannahKusKus I was busy moving in to a new house . But now I have my time for myLotting
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• Semarang, Indonesia
11 Aug 20
@Miss_Leafy oow you moved? Have a nice stay...
• Semarang, Indonesia
10 Aug 20
Yes... @Miss_Leafy, they do not have a mind to hurt the friends. Thanks a lot for dropping by. Long time no see
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• India
9 Aug 20
Yes kids are so innocent that they forget things the next moment
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• Semarang, Indonesia
10 Aug 20
Yes.. raj. We should learn from the kids pureheart
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@Lavanya15 (12888)
• Chennai, India
9 Aug 20
This is true story my friend. If kid quarrel each other it ends with in a second too, but parents involved we not possible to get end point my friend.
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• Semarang, Indonesia
10 Aug 20
Yes.. lavanya, we should learn from the kindhearted kids. Forgiving for someone else
@Overflowing (3710)
9 Aug 20
As for me,if its kids quarrel,its for kids..parent must know what was the quarrel about and if its not so serious or just plain kids fight,parent must not be involved..
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• Semarang, Indonesia
10 Aug 20
Yes.. @Overflowing, i agree with that. For serious problem the adult have to make them understand. Thanks for dropping by
10 Aug 20
@HannahKusKus yes thats true,yah sure no prob
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• Semarang, Indonesia
11 Aug 20