A Hand on my Shoulder

@akalinus (40634)
United States
August 11, 2020 12:24pm CST
The other night, something woke me up. Someone gripped my shoulder with their hand. I woke up swinging my fist and then grabbed for a weapon to defend myself. There was no one there. I have not been able to sleep well since then. It was not a dream but I don't know what to make of it. I want to know what you think happened. Did anything like that ever happen to you? Do you have any explanations or theories about this?
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
11 Aug 20
A spirit came for a visit. They woke you for a reason.
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@akalinus (40634)
• United States
11 Aug 20
I spent most of the night trying to figure out what just happened and why. Would this be a good spirit and why was there no message?
@akalinus (40634)
• United States
11 Aug 20
What kind of spirit would do that?
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@CarolDM (203451)
• Nashville, Tennessee
11 Aug 20
I agree with Angie. I believe in a presence and they visit from time to time.
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@akalinus (40634)
• United States
11 Aug 20
Do you think it is a good presence? Have you ever experienced a 'presence?'
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@akalinus (40634)
• United States
11 Aug 20
@CarolDM Hm, I never thought about that. Most of my family is gone. Something to think about.
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@CarolDM (203451)
• Nashville, Tennessee
11 Aug 20
@akalinus Yes I have and always believe it is a lost loved one.
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@Juliaacv (48591)
• Canada
11 Aug 20
Someone was with you, watching over you, and they needed you to wake. Trust that they are watching over you and try to get some sleep tonight.
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@Juliaacv (48591)
• Canada
12 Aug 20
@akalinus They were protecting you, not there to cause you any harm.
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@akalinus (40634)
• United States
13 Aug 20
@Juliaacv I am sure that my blood pressure went way up and my heart was beating so hard that I could hear and feel it.
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@akalinus (40634)
• United States
12 Aug 20
The idea of someone watching over me is very comforting. Thank you.
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@just4him (307318)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
11 Aug 20
That sounds freaky. I don't have an explanation. I'm not surprised you can't sleep.
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@akalinus (40634)
• United States
11 Aug 20
I'm afraid it might happen again and it would freak me out.
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@just4him (307318)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
11 Aug 20
@akalinus I'm sure it would. It would freak me out.
@akalinus (40634)
• United States
11 Aug 20
@just4him You think it could happen to me again? I hope not. I had a dream about a giant hand coming toward me while I was sleeping when I was a kid. I woke up screaming and it went away. It still bothers me to this day.
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@Hannihar (129571)
• Israel
12 Aug 20
@akalinus My cat sniffs around me so if anything wakes me it is her. That is very weird. Maybe you have ghosts that come out at night.
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@akalinus (40634)
• United States
12 Aug 20
I just felt it, I did not see anything unusual. I don't have any animals now although I sometimes watch the neighbor dogs.
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@akalinus (40634)
• United States
13 Aug 20
@Hannihar I live in a camper in a RV park. Anything is possible. I have lived here since 2002 and never had any problems here except for an invasion of opossums and some drunk neighbors trying to get in.
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@Hannihar (129571)
• Israel
13 Aug 20
@akalinus Have you lived where you live a long time? Has anything unusual happened there before you moved there?
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@nela13 (55734)
• Portugal
17 Aug 20
Maybe it was just a vivid dream.
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@akalinus (40634)
• United States
17 Aug 20
I do not think it was a dream. It woke me up.
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@akalinus (40634)
• United States
18 Aug 20
@nela13 Probably not in the way you are thinking of. It is a good question that I don't know how to answer.
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@nela13 (55734)
• Portugal
17 Aug 20
@akalinus Do you believe in spirits?
@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
17 Aug 20
Some dreams can seem very real.
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@akalinus (40634)
• United States
17 Aug 20
Yes, some of them are frightfully real.
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@moffittjc (118587)
• Gainesville, Florida
12 Aug 20
Did it tie into a particular dream you were having at the time, or was it completely random?
@akalinus (40634)
• United States
17 Aug 20
@moffittjc You know, that could be. I remember a time when I had a nightmare, my heart was racing, and I could not breathe well. There was a very loud knocking on my door and it woke me up. Of course, nobody was there.
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@moffittjc (118587)
• Gainesville, Florida
19 Aug 20
@akalinus There are so many things in this world that we don't understand, including the spiritual realm. Perhaps each of us does have a guardian angel looking after us, or a loved one who keeps watch. Of course, we may not ever know for sure while on this earth, but hopefully we'll know once we enter the afterlife.
@moffittjc (118587)
• Gainesville, Florida
16 Aug 20
@akalinus It's entirely possible that it could have been him, or maybe even an angel trying to wake you up for some reason. Maybe you were suffering from sleep apnea, and stopped breathing for a minute or two, and a handle shook you awake so you would start breathing again.
@Namelesss (3368)
• United States
11 Aug 20
You were likely dreaming and woke before your sleep cycle had ended. It happens. Also causes sleep paralysis and other 'strange' things. Whatever it was it can't hurt you but swinging in the dark might.
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@akalinus (40634)
• United States
11 Aug 20
I know I was asleep and it woke me up. I'm not sure if I was dreaming. Has anything strange ever happened while you were sleeping?
@akalinus (40634)
• United States
12 Aug 20
@Namelesss I am glad that it was comforting to you. It must have been a good spirit.
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@Namelesss (3368)
• United States
11 Aug 20
@akalinus Yes. before my husband passed away last year I would wake to feel someone holding my hand. At first it kind of freaked me out but then I realized it was trying to comfort me. Happened a few times.
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• Santiago, Chile
11 Aug 20
I haven't had such an encounter like the one you had, indeed I have heard something like this that happened a friend of a friend, but I thought it was an urban legend or something like that!
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@akalinus (40634)
• United States
11 Aug 20
I was alone in my room and I am not making it up. I wish it never happened but if someone visits me with a message, I would love to know what it is.
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@akalinus (40634)
• United States
12 Aug 20
@jvicentevalera My husband passed in 2016 and my son's fiancee in the same year. I loved that girl. I have two dear friends who passed in 2017 and my beloved brother in 2018.
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• Santiago, Chile
11 Aug 20
@akalinus question is, do you have any loved one, or close friend who recently passed away or something? I have heard stories of people passing away, and then their spirits trying to visit their loved ones sort of like making them know they're still nearby!
@Fa_Maverick (9458)
• Australia
12 Aug 20
Once I was in bed on a summery night so I had my leg out but tucked around my blanket so it was still covering my body and I felt something hit my leg and it felt like a twasse... It's a whip essentially. I woke with a jolt and there was a mark on my leg. It scared me so I messaged my at the time boyfriend Bones and he said "Yeah it was probably my mother because you're being a b*tch to me." From what I remember all I had done was not gone to visit because I was exhausted from getting up at 6am every day for uni.
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@akalinus (40634)
• United States
12 Aug 20
That is serious stuff. I hope that never happens to you again. I had no idea something like that could happen.
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@akalinus (40634)
• United States
13 Aug 20
@Fa_Maverick But you still felt the lash on your leg and it left a mark. How do you account for that?
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• Australia
13 Aug 20
@akalinus It was just him being a jerk actually. But thanks
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