Blocked sadly.
By Sunil Patil
@sunil4ya (185)
Bangalore, India
August 27, 2020 4:32pm CST
It is so sad that one of our fellow MyLotters found my comments harsh and blocked me. Perhaps I should be less harsh sounding. Also, perhaps I should not give very strong opinions on any topic. I didn't really mean to offend him or annoy him. This is not the first time my harsh, strong opinions have resulted in flamed threads on MyLot. So I have to be more gentle in commenting on any topic. Or would you handle this issue in a different way?
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@MALUSE (69390)
• Germany
27 Aug 20
It has happened to me, too. You can't make everybody happy. You aren't friends with everybody in real life, either. As long as it is only one member who doesn't like you and not a whole group, I see no profound problem. You can live with this.
I prefer an honest opinion to sugar coating any time.
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@sunil4ya (185)
• Bangalore, India
27 Aug 20
The gentleman in question is indeed an Asian, though I am not sure racial background has anything to do with sentiments of a person. There was an Iranian lady classmate of mine in the university who was over-sentimental compared to others. But not sure if all Iranians are like that!
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@amitkokiladitya (171935)
• Agra, India
28 Aug 20
You can't please everyone so let it be
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@jvicentevalera (13671)
• Santiago, Chile
28 Aug 20
I would have to see your answer so I can judge to say who's right.
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@sunil4ya (185)
• Bangalore, India
29 Aug 20
In many such situations, each party might be right to some extent & wrong to some extent, so judging either one as right or wrong may not be possible. But I feel the gentleman in question felt offended because I made a reference to obsessive compulsive behaviour though I did not point out he was obsessive compulsive.
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@jvicentevalera (13671)
• Santiago, Chile
29 Aug 20
@sunil4ya I see, so maybe you were misunderstood. But anyways you tried to explain yourself!
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@ExplorewtMe (6333)
• Nairobi, Kenya
27 Aug 20
I don't think this is a platform to put a harsh comment. But it is also fair to put your opinion but If someone not wanna take your opinion on some topic or you think your stand can be too strong for the other person just ignore that and go to the next topic. That is what my personal take on the discussion here.
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@ExplorewtMe (6333)
• Nairobi, Kenya
28 Aug 20
@sunil4ya Thanks.You can try once
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
27 Aug 20
We cannot please everyone. If even Jesus had enemies and He was perfect, of course people may not like us either. That's how I see things anyway.
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@DesirousDreamer (34780)
• Peoria, Arizona
27 Aug 20
We learn that we cannot please everyone, we cannot agree with everyone or make them agree with us. I try to avoid areas that require opinions because I rather not have a feud, but sometimes you cannot take it personally. Some people just block because they do not want to listen to all sides. I just let it happen, it is their choice, if they want to unblock at some point they can, but there are many other people on here, many other posts and many other people to make friends with.
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