Too Much Strict Parenting

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I had known a family who has a very strict father law maker. Even if their children was already on the right age around 25 years and above, some has a family already but still it should be the father who will decide things. Some of his children confess to me that their parents expectation is so very high and they are perfectionist. Their father's law makes them not being who they are, they are choking and its a toxic law already. They cant even see the city light view at night because they have 6pm curfew at their adult age. I think the father is not giving his son/daughter a chance to be independent and do parenting on their own. He still wants his children to abide him no matter what. It is heartwarming for us if our parents are very much concerned and as a respect your acknowledging that, but i do hope some parents give their children a chance to be a parent on their new family also, having independence to race their family as well to lessen the commotion on parents-children-inlaws matters. Ive read a Christian Book Titled "Story of Marriage" and having message like "son, i let you run your family. as long as your not asking for my advice i will not hinder, im giving you chance to be a father and race your family, were just here whenever you need"