Mostly of them are mess

@rhuenz (10680)
September 2, 2020 4:07am CST
If you are married,better to separate from a monster in-laws.My parents are good.And i should be lucky that i had god fearing husband,but what a bad luck to live with in-laws. On my previous post i shared that she used to pamper me,buy me stuffs,pay for my other expenses,but it doesn't mean the best. I need privacy should be but no,every time she has problem,knocking the door if husband and wife is there,even 10,11,12 at night disturbing. And if you're busy on line she has a problem. What the hell.You have a servant,you have money,you have everything but still she's messing our life. She will do good but there's a return she's expecting. I hope it's not about criticizing her but expressing my emotions which i can't voice out. Do you have good in-laws? If you are still single and planning to marry, Better live your own home.
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@Overflowing (3709)
2 Sep 20
I couldn't agree more ma friend.. now im pushing ma husband to build our own house,we supposedly have house but his parents interrupted for a reason,it was acceptable at first but i told my husband to pursue now our house no matter what
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@rhuenz (10680)
2 Sep 20
Yes,that called own house and home really important for husband and wife.If you're living with in laws privacy is not there and your moves are limited. Hope your house will finished very soon.
@rhuenz (10680)
2 Sep 20
@Overflowing good thing here its free we have no expenses but the impact is no privacy and peace.Good in front but ghost at the back haha
2 Sep 20
@rhuenz i pray for that ma friend because we should be doing our own thing without anybodys judging our moves in the house.double expenses also if we are all in one roof..no good
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@DianneN (254949)
• United States
2 Sep 20
It's very rare here to live in the same house with our parents or in-laws. Every young couple needs their privacy, especially after dinner.
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@DianneN (254949)
• United States
2 Sep 20
@rhuenz That's how it should be. Happy together and alone and in love.
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@rhuenz (10680)
2 Sep 20
@DianneN well if God's permit we will separate also once this pandemic is over.
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@rhuenz (10680)
2 Sep 20
I like that couple don't live with parents or in-laws after marriage.Here my goodness,a hell really. I knew like some of my country men married from Germany,U.S ,Italy,ect.they have their own life.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
3 Sep 20
ever thought of living separately from your in-laws?
@Janet357 (75638)
2 Sep 20
this is true. privacy is very important. But so far not all MILs are like that. Hope you feel.okay.
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@rhuenz (10680)
2 Sep 20
Yes not all. Sometimes what makes their behavior high and arrogant is that they think they are rich.
• India
2 Sep 20
There can be a problem like that but I don't think she should disturb you after dinner because you both have to njoy your privacy
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@rhuenz (10680)
2 Sep 20
She used to disturbed and before she said you should not close your door every time. What the hell mentality. Really.how to adjust with this.
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• India
2 Sep 20
@rhuenz sorry about it
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