Should girls be virgins before marriage

@aindnow (165)
India
September 12, 2006 9:42pm CST
Should boys and girls be vigins before marriage? Please tell me opinions about this
2 people like this
49 responses
@dulheraja (436)
• United States
3 Oct 06
offcourse Yes
• India
12 Oct 06
ok
• India
13 Oct 06
yes
@PSF123 (1167)
• China
19 Nov 06
I feel every night the moon should come down on my bed and we should have a nice time. Because having spending some time with moon at the point of marriage is a matter of 'godly, moral and a sign of decency in every man'. Please do not ask me why. It is exactly because of the same reason as you think the above paragraph (written by you). I mean everybody has right to think whatever he/ she likes to (even without any reason), who can stop whom? Isn't it?
@dixielol (1579)
• United States
19 Nov 06
What? Sorry, but i dont get what you are saying here.
1 person likes this
• United States
3 Oct 06
I don't think so. I think there is such thing as bedroom compatibility and it would create a problem if you didn't know if you were compatible before you got married. I also think you should be with a few people too before you get married, because experience makes everything better. Just make sure it's safe!
@doctorul (1058)
• Romania
5 Oct 06
I completely agree with you!
• India
2 Jan 07
Noway. Let me know if any girl is virgin here. I am here to give her best treatment.
• Philippines
17 Dec 06
well for me girls should be virgin before marriage specially if I going to marry one. However for boys it is not a must.
• United States
2 Jan 07
I would prefer her to be a virgin, but I'm not so hardcore on it that I would dump my girlfriend if she told me she was not a virgin. I used to be earlier in life, but then I realized, hey, everyone makes mistakes, and virginity isn't the ultimate gift a wife can give her husband - the ultimate gift is to be a great wife.
@krish000 (246)
• India
12 Oct 06
yes
@srhelmer (7029)
• Beaver Dam, Wisconsin
12 Oct 06
Before marriage? I'm not really too strict on that. However, I think they should save it for someone they are confident they will spend the rest of their life with.
• United States
12 Oct 06
Yes, they should be virgins before marriage. That way they have nothing to compare are complain about when they are with there partner. They will treasure and cherish each other for the rest of there lives. But, it is rare and hard to find.
@neon2000 (2756)
• Philippines
13 Oct 06
Not at all. Girls don't want to loss her virginity. It just happen.
• India
12 Oct 06
I dont see anything wrong in this. If boys can have the fun then why girls cant. Wake up guys.. we are in the 21st century.
@aquarian83 (1944)
• United States
12 Oct 06
no it need not be necessary
@PSF123 (1167)
• China
19 Nov 06
I feel every night the moon should come down on my bed and we should have a nice time. Because having spending some time with moon at the point of marriage is a matter of 'godly, moral and a sign of decency in every man'. Please do not ask me why. It is exactly because of the same reason as you think the above paragraph (written by you). I mean everybody has right to think whatever he/ she likes to (even without any reason), who can stop whom? Isn't it?
@krysy1982 (1041)
• United States
20 Nov 06
I believe it is the right thing to do but it is up to the person
@Mwanza1 (345)
• Kenya
12 Oct 06
In todays life style it can be quite a challenge do maintain virginity but i strongly belive if we give our lives to Christ girls can keep their virginity till marraige
@babray06 (1787)
• India
12 Oct 06
Even if I say yes, that will not change how the world thinks. But what will work, that I must tell you. If I am virgin myself, I will then really expect that my partner will also be virgin. If I am not then no point in telling others to be virgin or expecting that my partner will be virgin. Now one question might come up here that if I am virgin and I expect my partner to be virgin. But will that ensure my partner will be virgin as well? I will say in this world in our life you get what you do. So (there are some exceptions although) going by that logic you can really expect and it has a very high chance to work.
• United States
12 Oct 06
I used to believe that, but my ideals changed and I believe that it is a personal choice for the individual on what they would like to do.
@keerubai (582)
• India
12 Oct 06
Acually no, but its gud if they try to be
@j_thomas (957)
• India
12 Oct 06
yeah both of them shld b virgins
• India
12 Oct 06
it is an essential requirement in hindu religion but world is changing anythingis happening